最简单的职场情商课：不做办公室讨厌鬼
<p><span word="Like">Like</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="suppose">suppose</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="seeming">seeming</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="jerk">jerk</span>.</p><p>我想，和大多数人一样，我试着让自己不要看上去像个混蛋。</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="strategies">strategies</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="use">use</span>:</p><p>下面是一些我会用到的方法：</p><p>1. <span word="Offer">Offer</span> <span word="meaningful">meaningful</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span>.</p><p>1.说一些有意义的赞美。</p><p><span word="Emphasis">Emphasis</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> "<span word="meaningful">meaningful</span>." <span word="I">I</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="like">like</span>, “<span word="You">You</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="memory">memory</span>” <span word="or">or</span> “<span word="You">You</span> <span word="obviously">obviously</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="subject">subject</span>.” <span word="Empty">Empty</span>, <span word="automatic">automatic</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span> <span word="like">like</span> “<span word="Great">Great</span> <span word="tie">tie</span>!” <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="count">count</span>.</p><p>重点在有意义上。我试着说一些这样的话：“你记性真好”或者“你显然对这个问题非常了解。”空洞且不假思索的赞美，譬如“这条领带不错”，完全没任何意义。</p><p>2. <span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="credit">credit</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span>.</p><p>2.归功于他人。</p><p>“<span word="The">The</span> <span word="team">team</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="work">work</span>,” “<span word="Pat">Pat</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="idea">idea</span>.” <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="generous">generous</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="credit">credit</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="minimize">minimize</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="contribution">contribution</span>.“</p><p>是大家完成了所有工作，”“<span word="Pat">Pat</span>想出了这个主意。”大方地将功劳归功于别人并不会减少你的贡献。</p><p>3. <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="supply">supply</span> <span word="information">information</span>.</p><p>3.提问并让他人回答。</p><p><span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="leaders">leaders</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="knew">knew</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="answers">answers</span>, <span word="merely">merely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="demonstrate">demonstrate</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="know">know</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="challenge">challenge</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="help">help</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span>, “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="know">know</span>,” <span word="or">or</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="quiet">quiet</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="respond">respond</span>.</p>
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