你觉得是时候说出心底的秘密了吗
<p><span word="Can">Can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="secret">secret</span>?</p><p>你能保守秘密吗？</p><p><span word="Of">Of</span> <span word="course">course</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> -- <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="Communication">Communication</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="nearly">nearly</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> -- <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 95% <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> -- <span word="reports">reports</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fact">fact</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="information">information</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="reveal">reveal</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span>. (<span word="The">The</span> <span word="other">other</span> 5% <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="experts">experts</span> <span word="say">say</span>.) <span word="And">And</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="struggle">struggle</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="whether">whether</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span>.</p><p>当然可以――如果秘密是关于自己的话。传播学研究人员表示，几乎每个人――超过95%的人――都有关于自己的一件事或一点信息瞒着别人。（专家说，还有5%的人说自己没有，那可能是在说谎。）很多人都纠结于是否要把秘密告诉别人，以及何时以何种方式告诉别人。</p><p><span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="secrets">secrets</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="worthy">worthy</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="tabloid">tabloid</span> <span word="headlines">headlines</span>. <span word="Yet">Yet</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="trifles">trifles</span>, <span word="either">either</span>. <span word="Typically">Typically</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="secrets">secrets</span> <span word="relate">relate</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="topics">topics</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="either">either</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="view">view</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="shameful">shameful</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="will">will</span>, <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="say">say</span>. <span word="Financial">Financial</span> <span word="problems">problems</span>, <span word="extramarital">extramarital</span> <span word="affairs">affairs</span>, <span word="poor">poor</span> <span word="health">health</span> <span word="habits">habits</span>, <span word="addictions">addictions</span> -- <span word="these">these</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="secrets">secrets</span>.</p><p>大多数这种秘密连小报的头条都上不了，但也并一定就是细小的琐事。研究人员说，一般人们的秘密涉及的话题要么是自己认为不体面，要么以为别人会觉得不体面。财务问题、婚外情、不良的卫生习惯、上瘾――这些都是常见的秘密。</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="column">column</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="worried">worried</span>. <span word="Who">Who</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="secret">secret</span>? <span word="A">A</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="turns">turns</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="secrets">secrets</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="heard">heard</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="readers">readers</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="teenage">teenage</span> <span word="pregnancies">pregnancies</span>, 20-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="long">long</span> <span word="extramarital">extramarital</span> <span word="affairs">affairs</span>, <span word="sexual">sexual</span> <span word="abuse">abuse</span>, <span word="mental">mental</span> <span word="health">health</span> <span word="issues">issues</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="pornography">pornography</span> <span word="addictions">addictions</span>. <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="described">described</span> '<span word="CIA">CIA</span> <span word="operative">operative</span>' <span word="I">I</span> <span word="heard">heard</span> <span word="from">from</span>, <span word="kept">kept</span> <span word="secrets">secrets</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="families">families</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="years">years</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="whole">whole</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="secret">secret</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> '<span word="a">a</span> <span word="fugitive">fugitive</span> <span word="sought">sought</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="FBI">FBI</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="seven">seven</span> <span word="years">years</span> (<span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="freeing">freeing</span> <span word="mink">mink</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="fur">fur</span> <span word="farms">farms</span>.)'</p>
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