爱的教育：真爱教会我们的17堂课
<p><span word="Love">Love</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="go">go</span> ‘<span word="round">round</span>, <span word="right">right</span>? <span word="Well">Well</span>, <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="that">that</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="goes">goes</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="true">true</span>? <span word="It">It</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="confuse">confuse</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="jealousy">jealousy</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="possessiveness">possessiveness</span>. <span word="True">True</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="either">either</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="things">things</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="these">these</span> 17 <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="here">here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lessons">lessons</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="teaches">teaches</span> <span word="us">us</span>:</p><p>有句话叫做“爱让世界转动”，果真如此么？应该是吧。可是，很多人却把嫉妒或占有误以为是爱。真爱既不是嫉妒也不是占有。但下面这17个蕴意却能阐释爱。请看真爱能教会我们什么吧：</p><p>1. <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="letting">letting</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="expectations">expectations</span></p><p>爱意味着抛开期望</p><p><span word="Sure">Sure</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="behave">behave</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="affectionate">affectionate</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="outgoing">outgoing</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="smarter">smarter</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="ambitious">ambitious</span>. <span word="All">All</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="expectations">expectations</span>. <span word="Expectations">Expectations</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="requirements">requirements</span> <span word="for">for</span> “<span word="acceptability">acceptability</span>” <span word="of">of</span> <span word="loving">loving</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="expectations">expectations</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="loves">loves</span> “<span word="as">as</span> <span word="is">is</span>.”</p><p>自然，我们都希望别人能成为我们所期望的那样。我们要求他们更柔情、更阳光、更聪明或更有抱负。所有这些都是期望，而期望就是你“愿意”爱上某人的条件。可是，真爱并不尽是期望——真爱是能够接受对方本来的样子。</p><p>2. <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="play">play</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="victim">victim</span> <span word="role">role</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="blame">blame</span> <span word="others">others</span></p><p>爱没有“玻璃心”，也不会苛责对方</p><p><span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="works">works</span> <span word="together">together</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="forgives">forgives</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="allows">allows</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="actions">actions</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="journey">journey</span>. <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="personally">personally</span>.</p>
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