十个原因告诉你 为什么你的朋友那么少
<p>1. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="Complain">Complain</span> <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Lot">Lot</span></p><p>你总是抱怨</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="constantly">constantly</span> <span word="complaining">complaining</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="job">job</span>, <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="money">money</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="unfair">unfair</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="won">won</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Complaining">Complaining</span> <span word="gets">gets</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="fast">fast</span>. <span word="Try">Try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="develop">develop</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="attitude">attitude</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="interesting">interesting</span> <span word="topics">topics</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="discuss">discuss</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="what">what</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>.</p><p>如果你一直喋喋不休地抱怨工作，抱怨钱少，或是抱怨生命的不公，那旁人就会不屑花费过多的时间在你身上。再者，抱怨让人老得快。所以要培养一份更乐观的态度，并用更风趣的话题来代替你的碎碎念。</p><p>2. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="Ditch">Ditch</span> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="Friends">Friends</span> <span word="When">When</span> <span word="You">You</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Relationship">Relationship</span></p><p>重色轻友</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="guilty">guilty</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="ditching">ditching</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="new">new</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="won">won</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="sit">sit</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="wait">wait</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="breakup">breakup</span> <span word="story">story</span>. <span word="Instead">Instead</span>, <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="balance">balance</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="spending">spending</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="pals">pals</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="latest">latest</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="interest">interest</span>.</p><p>每当开始约会新的对象时，若你很愧疚地忽视朋友，那你的朋友可能就不会在你分手时陪伴左右，听你诉苦。并且，在他们的人生蓝图里你将不复存在。所以，在老友和新欢之间找到时间的平衡至关重要。</p><p>3. <span word="You">You</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="Selfish">Selfish</span></p><p>你很自私</p><p><span word="Consider">Consider</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span> <span word="contributes">contributes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fact">fact</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="Friendship">Friendship</span> <span word="requires">requires</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="unlikely">unlikely</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="tolerate">tolerate</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="long">long</span>.</p>
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