万万没想到：职场人见人爱只要六招
<p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span>? <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="easier">easier</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span>.<span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="research">research</span>-<span word="backed">backed</span> <span word="tips">tips</span>:</p><p>你想知道如何让别人喜欢你吗？其实比你想的要容易的多。研究得出以下6条结论：</p><p>1. <span word="Encourage">Encourage</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span></p><p>1. 鼓励人们谈论他们自己</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="gives">gives</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="brain">brain</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="pleasure">pleasure</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="food">food</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="money">money</span>:</p><p>这种做法给大脑带来的愉悦相当于食物或者金钱：</p><p><span word="Talking">Talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> — <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="media">media</span> <span word="sites">sites</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="Facebook">Facebook</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Twitter">Twitter</span> — <span word="triggers">triggers</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="sensation">sensation</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="pleasure">pleasure</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="brain">brain</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="food">food</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="money">money</span>, <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="reported">reported</span>.</p><p>研究者们的报告称，无论是在私人谈话还是通过脸书推特这些社交媒体交流时，谈论自我总会激发类似于食物和金钱给大脑带来的愉悦感。</p><p>"<span word="Self">Self</span>-<span word="disclosure">disclosure</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="extra">extra</span> <span word="rewarding">rewarding</span>," <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Harvard">Harvard</span> <span word="neuroscientist">neuroscientist</span> <span word="Diana">Diana</span> <span word="Tamir">Tamir</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="conducted">conducted</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="experiments">experiments</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="Harvard">Harvard</span> <span word="colleague">colleague</span> <span word="Jason">Jason</span> <span word="Mitchell">Mitchell</span>. <span word="Their">Their</span> <span word="findings">findings</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="published">published</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Proceedings">Proceedings</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="National">National</span> <span word="Academy">Academy</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Sciences">Sciences</span>. "<span word="People">People</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="forgo">forgo</span> <span word="money">money</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>," <span word="Ms">Ms</span>. <span word="Tamir">Tamir</span> <span word="said">said</span>.“</p><p>自我表露会带来超级多的满足感。”哈佛大学神经系统科学家黛安娜·塔米尔说。她和她哈佛的同事詹森·米切尔共同完成了这个实验，他们的科研结果发表在《美国国家科学院院刊》上。她说：“人们甚至不要钱，也想要表露自己。”</p>
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