恋爱婚姻家庭:幸福美满婚姻的秘密,期望值不能太高
<p><span word="Newlyweds">Newlyweds</span> <span word="advised">advised</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lower">lower</span> <span word="hopes">hopes</span></p><p>期望值不能太高</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="secret">secret</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="appears">appears</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>长久而又幸福婚姻的秘密在于不要期望太多。</p><p><span word="US">US</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="superior">superior</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="skills">skills</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="hopes">hopes</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="cosy">cosy</span> <span word="coupledom">coupledom</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="dashed">dashed</span>.</p><p>美国的研究人员说，除非你具备处理婚姻关系的高超技巧，否则你对美满婚姻的憧憬很可能会破灭。</p><p><span word="Far">Far</span> <span word="better">better</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="say">say</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="aim">aim</span> <span word="low">low</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ensure">ensure</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="disappointed">disappointed</span>.</p><p>他们还说，最好降低对婚姻的期望，这样可以保证你不失望。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keeping">keeping</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="newlywed">newlywed</span> <span word="glow">glow</span> <span word="appears">appears</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="forgiveness">forgiveness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>.</p><p>宽恕和交流是保持新婚激情的关键。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="study">study</span>, <span word="by">by</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Ohio">Ohio</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Florida">Florida</span> <span word="Universities">Universities</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="at">at</span> 82 <span word="couples">couples</span>.</p><p>来自美国俄亥俄州和佛罗里达州各大学的研究人员对82对夫妻进行了研究。</p><p><span word="They">They</span> <span word="quizzed">quizzed</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="spouses">spouses</span> <span word="independently">independently</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="years">years</span>.</p><p>研究人员在4年多的时间里对所有的配偶单独进行研究。</p><p><span word="Their">Their</span> <span word="study">study</span>, <span word="published">published</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Journal">Journal</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Personality">Personality</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Social">Social</span> <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span>, <span word="found">found</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="believed">believed</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="unfailingly">unfailingly</span> <span word="kind">kind</span>, <span word="loving">loving</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="word">word</span>, <span word="could">could</span> <span word="retain">retain</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="outlook">outlook</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="forgiving">forgiving</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="charitable">charitable</span> <span word="explanations">explanations</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="behaviour">behaviour</span>.</p>
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