积极乐观的人不会做的14件事
<p>1. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="Assume">Assume</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Worst">Worst</span></p><p>不总往坏处想</p><p><span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="amazing">amazing</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="wouldn">wouldn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="exist">exist</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="invent">invent</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="Positive">Positive</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="leaping">leaping</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="conclusions">conclusions</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="idea">idea</span>. <span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="freaking">freaking</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="unanswered">unanswered</span> <span word="text">text</span> (“<span word="What">What</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="me">me</span>?”), <span word="they">they</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="day">day</span> (“<span word="hmm">hmm</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="busy">busy</span>!”). <span word="Before">Before</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="decide">decide</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="untrustworthy">untrustworthy</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p><p>如果我们不去乱想，其实很多问题根本就不存在，懂不懂？积极的人知道太在意结局不是个好办法。与其花时间去乱想那些没有答案的东西（如果他们不喜欢我怎么办？），不如就去认为他们也有自己的生活（恩，他们实在太忙！）。在决定判定一个人靠不住之前，他们会积极地去了解更多。</p><p>2. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="Resist">Resist</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Truth">Truth</span></p><p>不抗拒事实</p><p><span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="lies">lies</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="eventually">eventually</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="forget">forget</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truth">truth</span>. <span word="Positive">Positive</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="excuses">excuses</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="solution">solution</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="gone">gone</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>.</p><p>活在谎言之中非常简单，因为谎言会慢慢变大以致让你忽视真理的存在。积极的人知道他们需要去面对事实，接受事实。一味的找理由永远不会为那些难题找到解决方法。</p><p>3. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="Hold">Hold</span> <span word="On">On</span> <span word="To">To</span> <span word="Resentment">Resentment</span></p>
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