老板爱咆哮:5招应对老板的大喊大叫
<p><span word="Question">Question</span>: <span word="I">I</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="August">August</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="here">here</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="report">report</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="yells">yells</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="he">he</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span> (<span word="which">which</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>). <span word="He">He</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="abusive">abusive</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="insulting">insulting</span>, <span word="he">he</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="extremely">extremely</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="loud">loud</span>.</p><p>问题：我八月份找到一份新工作，总体上我比较喜欢这份工作。只是有一点，我的上司每当面对压力的时候（几乎大部分时间），就爱对同事大吼大叫。当然，他并不是辱骂、侮辱下属，只不过他非常容易激动，而且说话声音很大。</p><p><span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="this">this</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="leaves">leaves</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="dumbstruck">dumbstruck</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="concentrate">concentrate</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="intelligently">intelligently</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="hollering">hollering</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="reports">reports</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="manager">manager</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="here">here</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="responds">responds</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>, "<span word="Call">Call</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="calmed">calmed</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>," <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="leaves">leaves</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="room">room</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="quite">quite</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="nerve">nerve</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="yell">yell</span> <span word="back">back</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="suggest">suggest</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="handle">handle</span> <span word="this">this</span>?</p><p>对此我很不习惯，这种情况让我不知所措。每当有人对我大声叫喊的时候，我总是无法集中精力，而且不能明智地回答问题。包括我在内，他一共只有两名下属，另外一位已经在公司工作很长时间了，每当上司对他吼叫的时候，他会对他说：“等你冷静下来给我打电话，我们到时候再谈。”然后就离开房间。我可不敢那么做，但我也不想对他喊叫。那么，我应该怎么办？</p>
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