在社会上如何把握拥抱礼仪的分寸
<p><span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hugger">hugger</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="registered">registered</span> <span word="personal">personal</span>-<span word="space">space</span> <span word="invader">invader</span> <span word="coming">coming</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="party">party</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="music">music</span> <span word="from">from</span> '<span word="Jaws">Jaws</span>' <span word="plays">plays</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="head">head</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="lots">lots</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="me">me</span> -- <span word="reasonably">reasonably</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="situations">situations</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="particular">particular</span> <span word="phobias">phobias</span>, <span word="just">just</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="reserved">reserved</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="expressions">expressions</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="physical">physical</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span>.</p><p>我不是个爱拥抱的人。在派对上看到习惯侵犯私人空间的人走过来时，我脑子里就会响起《大白鲨》(<span word="Jaws">Jaws</span>)的音乐。有很多人都和我一样——在社交场合挺自在，没有特别的恐惧症，只是在身体亲密行为的表达上有点保守。</p><p><span word="For">For</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="fans">fans</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="space">space</span>, <span word="these">these</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="times">times</span>. <span word="America">America</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hugging">hugging</span> <span word="culture">culture</span>. <span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="Academy">Academy</span> <span word="Award">Award</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="gauntlet">gauntlet</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="hugs">hugs</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="seat">seat</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stage">stage</span>? <span word="Any">Any</span> <span word="sports">sports</span> <span word="win">win</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="ignite">ignite</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="orgy">orgy</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="whooping">whooping</span>, <span word="full">full</span>-<span word="body">body</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="hugs">hugs</span>. <span word="Political">Political</span> <span word="empathy">empathy</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="tragedy">tragedy</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="measured">measured</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="hugs">hugs</span>.</p><p>对我们这些喜欢保持一定距离的人来说，这种时候就比较难熬。美国已经成为了一个崇尚拥抱文化的国家。没有从座位到舞台的一连串拥抱能叫奥斯卡颁奖礼(<span word="Academy">Academy</span> <span word="Award">Award</span>)吗？任何体育项目的获胜都会引起一阵狂欢式的全身拥抱。悲剧事件中政治同理心是通过拥抱来衡量的。</p>
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