感悟生活：享受一个人的独处时光
<p><span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="rely">rely</span> <span word="completely">completely</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="being">being</span>, <span word="however">however</span> <span word="dear">dear</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="life">life</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="greatest">greatest</span> <span word="tests">tests</span> <span word="alone">alone</span>.” -<span word="Agnes">Agnes</span> <span word="Macphail">Macphail</span></p><p>不要完全依赖另一个人，无论他/她有多么珍贵。生活中最大的考验，我们只能独自经历。——加拿大首位女性议员艾格尼丝·麦克菲尔</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="alone">alone</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="skin">skin</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="provides">provides</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="patience">patience</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span>, <span word="wherever">wherever</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="journey">journey</span>, <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="daily">daily</span> <span word="basis">basis</span>.</p><p>我发现独处的时间越长，我越觉得舒服、放松和自信，因为这样我可以认识真正的自己。这让我每天都有更多的耐心来接受自己，接受自己在生活旅途中的位置。</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="lesson">lesson</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="spending">spending</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="summer">summer</span> <span word="alone">alone</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Italy">Italy</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>.</p><p>这堂人生课是我独自一人在意大利学到的，当时我在一位世交朋友家里度过了一个夏天。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="embarked">embarked</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="journey">journey</span>, <span word="turning">turning</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="well">well</span>, <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="ever">ever</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="jetting">jetting</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="America">America</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="landing">landing</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="country">country</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="basically">basically</span> <span word="unknown">unknown</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span>.</p><p>我踏上旅途，第一次关上了手机，嗯，这么多年来第一次。我在美国上方飞来飞去，然后降落在一个国家，和一家基本上不认识的人生活在一起。</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="returned">returned</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wished">wished</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="experiencing">experiencing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="greatest">greatest</span> <span word="adventure">adventure</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="skin">skin</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="present">present</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="magical">magical</span> <span word="moments">moments</span> <span word="presenting">presenting</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="foreign">foreign</span> <span word="country">country</span>.</p>
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