情感必修课：4大感情错误千万不要犯
<p><span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fling">fling</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="turned">turned</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="blown">blown</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="Now">Now</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dumps">dumps</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="ends">ends</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fiery">fiery</span> <span word="cloud">cloud</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="smoke">smoke</span>.</p><p>几个月过去了，曾经的美好早已支离破碎。到底是什么让这段完美的感情走到尽头，烟消云散？</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="different">different</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="fiery">fiery</span> <span word="cloud">cloud</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="appearance">appearance</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="again">again</span>.</p><p>这次要做点改变。下一段感情一定要完美，你不能再犯同样的错误。先看看下面一些常见的感情错误，确保不再犯，否则乌云还是会再次出现影响你们的感情。</p><p>1. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="Stand">Stand</span> <span word="Up">Up</span> <span word="For">For</span> <span word="Yourself">Yourself</span></p><p>不为自己说话</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="too">too</span>-<span word="common">common</span> <span word="habit">habit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="habit">habit</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="genders">genders</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="manifests">manifests</span> <span word="itself">itself</span> <span word="differently">differently</span>.</p><p>这是男女之间太常见的问题。这一习惯的背后是两性之间自我价值的缺失感，只是表达方式有所不同。</p><p><span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remain">remain</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="graces">graces</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="submit">submit</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="wants">wants</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="disagreeing">disagreeing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="her">her</span>, <span word="she">she</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="drop">drop</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hot">hot</span> <span word="potato">potato</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="couldn">couldn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="further">further</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truth">truth</span>. <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="gentleman">gentleman</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="puppy">puppy</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="choices">choices</span>: (1) <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pushover">pushover</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="puts">puts</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="everything">everything</span>, <span word="and">and</span> (2) <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hyper">hyper</span>-<span word="masculine">masculine</span> <span word="a">a</span>-<span word="hole">hole</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="vacillate">vacillate</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="two">two</span>, <span word="unable">unable</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="there">there</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="median">median</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="resenting">resenting</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="instead">instead</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="loving">loving</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p>
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