致女人:婚前这些道理你该懂
<p><span word="YOU">YOU</span> <span word="CAN">CAN</span>'<span word="T">T</span> <span word="CHANGE">CHANGE</span> <span word="A">A</span> <span word="GUY">GUY</span></p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="improvements">improvements</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="whomever">whomever</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="won">won</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="him">him</span> – <span word="as">as</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="tempting">tempting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="like">like</span> – <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="point">point</span> – <span word="and">and</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="dreams">dreams</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fully">fully</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="now">now</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="won">won</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="magically">magically</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="marrying">marrying</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="moving">moving</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="Think">Think</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="commit">commit</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spending">spending</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rest">rest</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> – <span word="or">or</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="agreeing">agreeing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="apartment">apartment</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="totally">totally</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="about">about</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="setting">setting</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="roller">roller</span> <span word="coaster">coaster</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="frustrated">frustrated</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="time">time</span>.</p><p>你不可能改变一个人</p><p>你可以把和你在一起的那个人变好，但你不能改变他，尽管你可能尝试过或者多么想改变。很容易相信你可以一点点改变你喜欢的人——从而把他变成你的梦中情人。别相信。如果你现在不完全接受他，他就是他，你不可能通过和他结婚或同居就神奇地把他变成另外一个人。在你承诺一生与其相伴，甚至只是同意共享一个公寓之前要深思熟虑，因为如果你不完全满意他们本身以及与之相关的事，你正将自己置身于一段不时感到沮丧的过山车般的恋情中。</p><p><span word="CHEMISTRY">CHEMISTRY</span> <span word="CAN">CAN</span>'<span word="T">T</span> <span word="BE">BE</span> <span word="MANUFACTURED">MANUFACTURED</span></p>
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