小事情大麻烦: 帮朋友忙要不要收钱
<p><span word="Should">Should</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="charge">charge</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="advice">advice</span>?</p><p>帮朋友忙要不要收钱</p><p><span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="attorney">attorney</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="calls">calls</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="marital">marital</span> <span word="woes">woes</span>? <span word="The">The</span> <span word="accountant">accountant</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="finds">finds</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="inevitably">inevitably</span> <span word="turns">turns</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="iPad">iPad</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="trip">trip</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Bermuda">Bermuda</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="tax">tax</span>-<span word="deductible">deductible</span>? <span word="Maybe">Maybe</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="techie">techie</span> <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>' <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="repeatedly">repeatedly</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="uploading">uploading</span> <span word="photos">photos</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="cloud">cloud</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="sharing">sharing</span> <span word="videos">videos</span> <span word="online">online</span>.</p><p>身为离婚律师，是不是每个人都给你打电话咨询他们的婚姻危机？身为会计师，你是不是发现晚餐的谈话不可避免地转向你朋友的新款<span word="iPad">iPad</span>平板电脑或百慕大之旅可以免税的话题？又或许，你是位技术专家，你的朋友和父母的朋友会反复打电话，询问如何上传照片到云盘或者分享在线视频？</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="expert">expert</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="field">field</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="flattering">flattering</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="opinion">opinion</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="advice">advice</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="cross">cross</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="limits">limits</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="work">work</span>-<span word="life">life</span> <span word="boundaries">boundaries</span>. <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="Jonas">Jonas</span> <span word="Salk">Salk</span> <span word="gave">gave</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="polio">polio</span> <span word="vaccine">vaccine</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Craig">Craig</span> <span word="Newmark">Newmark</span> <span word="refuses">refuses</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="charge">charge</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="Craigslist">Craigslist</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="philanthropist">philanthropist</span> <span word="too">too</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="altruistic">altruistic</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="unlimited">unlimited</span> <span word="counsel">counsel</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="clock">clock</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="helpful">helpful</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="entitled">entitled</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="meaningful">meaningful</span> <span word="limits">limits</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pro">pro</span> <span word="bono">bono</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dish">dish</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="regularly">regularly</span>.</p><p>成为你所在领域的专家感觉不错，别人征求你的意见或建议也让你颇为得意，不过有时候人们越过了个人交往和工作与生活平衡的界限。不能因为乔纳斯•索尔克免费提供脊髓灰质炎疫苗，克雷格•纽马克拒绝对<span word="Craigslist">Craigslist</span>网站收费，你也必须当个慈善家。你也许大公无私，但是不必全天候为朋友或家人提供无穷无尽的建议。你应该在你力所能及的时候提供帮助，但是你有权为你日常提供的无偿建议加上有益的限制。</p>
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