8个理由告诉你 第一次约会不必太紧张
<p><span word="Dating">Dating</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="humans">humans</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="engage">engage</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="doubt">doubt</span> <span word="observed">observed</span>, <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="major">major</span> <span word="source">source</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="stress">stress</span> -- <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="dates">dates</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="waste">waste</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shocking">shocking</span> <span word="amount">amount</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="worrying">worrying</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="outfit">outfit</span>, <span word="where">where</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="up">up</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="well">well</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="eight">eight</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stress">stress</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span>:</p><p>大多数约过会的人想必已经留意到，约会也是压力的一大来源，尤其是第一次约会。你会浪费大量的时间在担心你的穿着、见面地点、见面时间，以及约会是否顺利。这是关于初次约会不必紧张的8个理由。</p><p>1. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="judge">judge</span>, <span word="too">too</span>.</p><p>1. 你也会评价对方。</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="waste">waste</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="whole">whole</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="worrying">worrying</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="precious">precious</span> <span word="hours">hours</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="date">date</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="Tom">Tom</span> <span word="Hanks">Hanks</span>' <span word="character">character</span> <span word="tells">tells</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="fictional">fictional</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="in">in</span> "<span word="Sleepless">Sleepless</span> <span word="In">In</span> <span word="Seattle">Seattle</span>", "<span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="do">do</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="fit">fit</span>." <span word="Spend">Spend</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="evaluating">evaluating</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="sitting">sitting</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="tailored">tailored</span> <span word="suit">suit</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="ill">ill</span>-<span word="fitting">fitting</span> <span word="item">item</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rack">rack</span>.</p><p>你会很容易把时间浪费在担忧“与你约会的人会不会喜欢你”这个问题上。但约会前的几小时可以更为有用，比如想想你会不会喜欢上你的约会对象。就像汤姆-汉克斯在电影《西雅图夜未眠》中饰演的角色对儿子说，“这就是单身人士做的事。他们约会对方，看看对方适不适合自己。” 初次约会时评价一下坐在你对面的那个人，看他是品行端庄的人还是邋遢不堪的人。</p>
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