不做木讷宅男：吸引女人的13个聊天小诀窍
<p><span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="taught">taught</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="women">women</span>. <span word="Because">Because</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="guys">guys</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="attract">attract</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> 13 <span word="tips">tips</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="d">d</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="attract">attract</span>:</p><p>很多男人都没有学习过怎样和女人聊天。正因为如此，很多男人终其一生都对女人没有吸引力。以下是13个小贴士，让你在想吸引的女人面前不犯错误。</p><p>1. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> “<span word="emotional">emotional</span>” <span word="topics">topics</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="childhood">childhood</span> <span word="memories">memories</span>, <span word="future">future</span> <span word="ambitions">ambitions</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="passions">passions</span>. <span word="These">These</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="topics">topics</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="floodgates">floodgates</span>.</p><p>你应该谈论和“情感”有关的话题，如童年回忆、未来志向、或者她的爱好。这样的话题能够打开她情绪的闸门。</p><p>2. <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="guy">guy</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="her">her</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>. <span word="Never">Never</span> <span word="wait">wait</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="dictate">dictate</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span>.</p><p>女人们喜欢有能力掌控她的男人。跟女人谈话时要掌控话题。不要等着她告诉你谈论什么。</p><p>3. <span word="Pay">Pay</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="verbal">verbal</span> <span word="cues">cues</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="standing">standing</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="her">her</span>, <span word="accidentally">accidentally</span> <span word="spitting">spitting</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="uncomfortable">uncomfortable</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="way">way</span>… <span word="she">she</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="send">send</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hints">hints</span>. <span word="Pay">Pay</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p><p>注意女人给你的非语言提示。如果你站得离她很近，说话时唾沫星横飞，或是让她在其他方面感到不自在，她会给你暗示，要注意这些提示。</p>
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