今年回家不攀比:邻居只是看上去比你有钱
<p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="window">window</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="night">night</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span>, <span word="staring">staring</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="street">street</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="neighbors">neighbors</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="cars">cars</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="drive">drive</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="weekly">weekly</span> <span word="manicured">manicured</span> <span word="lawns">lawns</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="vacations">vacations</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="times">times</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="year">year</span>.</p><p>吃完晚饭，你朝窗外望去，目光穿过小路看到了邻居。你羡慕他家的车子，每周修剪的草地，甚至每年几次的假期。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="neighbors">neighbors</span> <span word="afford">afford</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span>:</p><p>但邻居拥有我们追求的生活不是没有原因的：</p><p>1. <span word="Perception">Perception</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="Everything">Everything</span></p><p>1. 眼睛会骗人</p><p><span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="perception">perception</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="skewed">skewed</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="fancy">fancy</span> <span word="cars">cars</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="driveway">driveway</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="trim">trim</span> <span word="lawns">lawns</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="toes">toes</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="watch">watch</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="crews">crews</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="awesome">awesome</span> <span word="remodeling">remodeling</span> <span word="projects">projects</span> <span word="happening">happening</span> <span word="inside">inside</span>. <span word="Yet">Yet</span>, <span word="none">none</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="neighbors">neighbors</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="wealthier">wealthier</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span>. <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="affluent">affluent</span>, <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span>.</p><p>眼睛里看到的东西未必是真实的。你看到车道上的靓车，脚下整齐的草地，看到他家进进出出的装修工人，忙着为屋子重新装修。但这些都不能表示邻居比你有钱。这只是你的错觉，不是实际情况。</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="above">above</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="surface">surface</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="spending">spending</span>, <span word="meaning">meaning</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="what">what</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="happening">happening</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="below">below</span>.</p><p>你只看到他们表面上花钱的情况，不知道人家在你看不到的地方过什么样的日子。</p>
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