是谁偷走了中国人的幸福
<p>1. <span word="Lack">Lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="faith">faith</span> (<span word="beliefs">beliefs</span> )</p><p>1. 缺乏信念。</p><p><span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="expectationsare">expectationsare</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="whole">whole</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span>.<span word="Confucius">Confucius</span> <span word="ate">ate</span> <span word="coarse">coarse</span> <span word="rice">rice</span>, <span word="drank">drank</span> <span word="water">water</span>, <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="pillows">pillows</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="sleepingand">sleepingand</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="arms">arms</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="pillows">pillows</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="Confucius">Confucius</span> <span word="said">said</span>, “<span word="Happiness">Happiness</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="within">within</span>”; <span word="Hesaid">Hesaid</span>, “<span word="A">A</span> <span word="basket">basket</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="cooked">cooked</span> <span word="rice">rice</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="ladle">ladle</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="water">water</span>, <span word="living">living</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ghetto">ghetto</span> <span word="alley">alley</span>”,<span word="others">others</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="unbearable">unbearable</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="Confucius">Confucius</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> “<span word="keephis">keephis</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>”. <span word="Why">Why</span>? <span word="Because">Because</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="knew">knew</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="pursuing">pursuing</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="life">life</span>.</p><p>许多人都不知道他人生中最期待的是什么，仅仅放下，你不知道你想要什么。孔子吃糙米喝水，甚至睡觉都没有枕头，而仅仅以手臂为枕，但孔夫子说，“乐亦在其中矣”；他说：“饭疏食，饮水，曲肱而枕之”，其他人可能认为这是不能忍受的生活，但孔子却能“保持幸福”。为什么呢？因为他知道他追求的就是这种生活。</p><p>2. <span word="Always">Always</span> <span word="comparing">comparing</span></p><p>2. 老是比较。</p><p><span word="Western">Western</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="goes">goes</span>, <span word="Whether">Whether</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="isfortunate">isfortunate</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span>, <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span>, <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="depend">depend</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="accomplishmenthe">accomplishmenthe</span>/<span word="she">she</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="achieved">achieved</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="neighbors">neighbors</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="whatwe">whatwe</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="pursuing">pursuing</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happier">happier</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="happinesswill">happinesswill</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="further">further</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="us">us</span>.</p><p>西方谚语说，一个人是否幸运，是否快乐，不取决于他取得了多大的成就，而是他的邻居怎么看他。一旦我们追求的不是如何幸福，而是怎么比别人幸福时，幸福反而会更加远离我们。</p>
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