人之将死,其言也善:生命终结时五大遗憾
<p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="mention">mention</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="bungee">bungee</span> <span word="jumps">jumps</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="nurse">nurse</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="counselled">counselled</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dying">dying</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="revealed">revealed</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="regrets">regrets</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="among">among</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="top">top</span>, <span word="from">from</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="particular">particular</span>, <span word="is">is</span> '<span word="I">I</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="hadn">hadn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="worked">worked</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="hard">hard</span>'.</p><p>没有提到更多性或蹦极。曾经在将死之人最后日子里劝慰他们的一名护士揭示了在生命最后最常见的遗憾。排在前列的有，特别是来自男性的“我希望我没有如此辛苦地工作”。</p><p><span word="Bronnie">Bronnie</span> <span word="Ware">Ware</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="Australian">Australian</span> <span word="nurse">nurse</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="palliative">palliative</span> <span word="care">care</span>, <span word="caring">caring</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="patients">patients</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="last">last</span> 12 <span word="weeks">weeks</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="recorded">recorded</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="dying">dying</span> <span word="epiphanies">epiphanies</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="blog">blog</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="Inspiration">Inspiration</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Chai">Chai</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="gathered">gathered</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="observations">observations</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Top">Top</span> <span word="Five">Five</span> <span word="Regrets">Regrets</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Dying">Dying</span>.</p><p><span word="Bronnie">Bronnie</span> <span word="Ware">Ware</span>是一名澳大利亚护士，她花了好几年时间致力于临终关怀，在病人生命的最后12周照顾他们。她在一篇叫 《<span word="Inspiration">Inspiration</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Chai">Chai</span>》 的博客中记录了他们临死前的顿悟，这聚集了太多的关注，以至于她把自己的观察写到一本叫《将死之人的五大遗憾》的书里。</p><p><span word="Ware">Ware</span> <span word="writes">writes</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="phenomenal">phenomenal</span> <span word="clarity">clarity</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="vision">vision</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="gain">gain</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="wisdom">wisdom</span>. "<span word="When">When</span> <span word="questioned">questioned</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="regrets">regrets</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="differently">differently</span>," <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>, "<span word="common">common</span> <span word="themes">themes</span> <span word="surfaced">surfaced</span> <span word="again">again</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="again">again</span>."</p>
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