离开误交的三类朋友
<p>3 <span word="kinds">kinds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="false">false</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="fire">fire</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span></p><p>离开误交的三类朋友</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="blog">blog</span> <span word="posts">posts</span>, <span word="here">here</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Forbes">Forbes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="platforms">platforms</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="spark">spark</span> <span word="further">further</span> <span word="thought">thought</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Inc">Inc</span>.<span word="com">com</span>, <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Jeff">Jeff</span> <span word="Haden">Haden</span>, <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="types">types</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="remove">remove</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="inner">inner</span> <span word="circle">circle</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="owner">owner</span>.</p><p>我经常在福布斯和其他网站上读一些博客帖子,有些帖子发人深省。我最近在<span word="Inc">Inc</span>.<span word="com">com</span>网站上读了一篇杰夫.哈登写的帖子,帖子讲的是企业主应远离的几类人。</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="reflecting">reflecting</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="folks">folks</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="removed">removed</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="years">years</span> (<span word="not">not</span> <span word="removed">removed</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Mafioso">Mafioso</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> – <span word="I">I</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> ‘<span word="stopped">stopped</span> <span word="interacting">interacting</span> <span word="with">with</span>’), <span word="or">or</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="encouraged">encouraged</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remove">remove</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="sound">sound</span> <span word="callous">callous</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="draconian">draconian</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="convinced">convinced</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="short">short</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="daily">daily</span> <span word="basis">basis</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="succeed">succeed</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>.<span word="Now">Now</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="course">course</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="folks">folks</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="fondest">fondest</span> <span word="of">of</span> – <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span>, <span word="family">family</span> – <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tear">tear</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="hair">hair</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="That">That</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span> ‘<span word="m">m</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> (<span word="that">that</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="planet">planet</span>). <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="folks">folks</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="consistently">consistently</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="harder">harder</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="pleasant">pleasant</span>.<span word="So">So</span>, <span word="here">here</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="observation">observation</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="types">types</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="invite">invite</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>:</p><p>这让我不禁想到了几年间那些被我从我的生活中消除的人(我的意思是“停止交往”,而不是黑手党意义上的消除),和那些我劝别人疏远的人。这听起来可能有些冷漠无情,但是我坚信人生苦短,我们不应该让那些阻碍我们成功和快乐的人整日出现在身边。有时候即使是我们最喜欢的朋友、同事和家人也会是我们发狂,但那不是我要说的情况(这个星球的生活就是这样)。我要说的是那些总是你的生活充满困难和不快的人。下面的三类人,就是我通过观察认为你应当远离的人。</p>
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