我单身所以我快乐：单身妹纸请这样过生活
<p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="not">not</span>-<span word="so">so</span>-<span word="distant">distant</span> <span word="past">past</span>, <span word="being">being</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="failure">failure</span>. <span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="considered">considered</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="lonely">lonely</span> <span word="creatures">creatures</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="couldn">couldn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="attract">attract</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span>. <span word="Though">Though</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="stigma">stigma</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="remains">remains</span>, <span word="research">research</span> <span word="conducted">conducted</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Kay">Kay</span> <span word="Trimberger">Trimberger</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="visiting">visiting</span> <span word="scholar">scholar</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="California">California</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Berkeley">Berkeley</span>, <span word="reveals">reveals</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="women">women</span>, <span word="including">including</span> <span word="singles">singles</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="requirement">requirement</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="leading">leading</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fulfilling">fulfilling</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>.</p><p>在并不遥远的过去，“单身”是种失败的象征。“单身女性”就等同于“没有吸引力的孤独生物”。虽然现在仍存在类似偏见，但最近加州大学伯克利分校的访问学者<span word="Kay">Kay</span> <span word="Trimberger">Trimberger</span>开展的一项调查显示，对女性而言，是否单身和是否拥有一个充实而成功的人生并无关联。幸福可以有很多方式。</p><p><span word="Step">Step</span> 1：<span word="Look">Look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pros">pros</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="cons">cons</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="situation">situation</span>.</p><p>第一步：审视自身环境中的优缺点。</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="choice">choice</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="circumstance">circumstance</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="missing">missing</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="things">things</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="grass">grass</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="greener">greener</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="side">side</span>. <span word="Think">Think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="strains">strains</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="entails">entails</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="freedom">freedom</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="now">now</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="then">then</span>. <span word="Look">Look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="points">points</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="single">single</span>, <span word="without">without</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pretend">pretend</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="rosy">rosy</span>.</p><p>也许你的单身是自己选择、抑或是环境使然。可能有时候你会觉得自己错过了一些东西，但请记得不要“这山望着那山高”。想想看吧，一段感情中有多少烦心事儿啊！而单身能给你最大的自由。假如你曾经历过数段不快乐的感情，请把自己当前的状态和曾经的状态做个比较。挖掘那些单身的闪光点，同时别假装曾经的那些感情生活只剩美好和浪漫。</p>
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