纯粹友谊不存在？男人更爱自作多情
<p><span word="Can">Can</span> <span word="heterosexual">heterosexual</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="be">be</span> “<span word="just">just</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>”? <span word="Daily">Daily</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="males">males</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="females">females</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="possible">possible</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="common">common</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="men">men</span>, <span word="relative">relative</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="women">women</span>, <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="particularly">particularly</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="being">being</span> “<span word="just">just</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>.”</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="investigate">investigate</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="viability">viability</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="platonic">platonic</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span>-<span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span>, <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="brought">brought</span> 88 <span word="pairs">pairs</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="undergraduate">undergraduate</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span>-<span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="into">into</span>...<span word="a">a</span> <span word="science">science</span> <span word="lab">lab</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ensure">ensure</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="responses">responses</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="followed">followed</span> <span word="standard">standard</span> <span word="protocols">protocols</span> <span word="regarding">regarding</span> <span word="anonymity">anonymity</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="confidentiality">confidentiality</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="required">required</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="refrain">refrain</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="discussing">discussing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="study">study</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="testing">testing</span> <span word="facility">facility</span>. <span word="These">These</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="pairs">pairs</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="separated">separated</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="member">member</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="pair">pair</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="series">series</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="related">related</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="toward">toward</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="whom">whom</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="study">study</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="results">results</span> <span word="suggest">suggest</span> <span word="large">large</span> <span word="gender">gender</span> <span word="differences">differences</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span>-<span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span>. <span word="Men">Men</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="attracted">attracted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="female">female</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="vice">vice</span> <span word="versa">versa</span>. <span word="Men">Men</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span>-<span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="attracted">attracted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="them">them</span>—<span word="a">a</span> <span word="clearly">clearly</span> <span word="misguided">misguided</span> <span word="belief">belief</span>.</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="men">men</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="estimates">estimates</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="attractive">attractive</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="female">female</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="virtually">virtually</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="felt">felt</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="almost">almost</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="felt">felt</span>—<span word="basically">basically</span>, <span word="males">males</span> <span word="assumed">assumed</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="attraction">attraction</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="experienced">experienced</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="mutual">mutual</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="blind">blind</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="actual">actual</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="female">female</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="Women">Women</span>, <span word="too">too</span>, <span word="were">were</span> <span word="blind">blind</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="mindset">mindset</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span>-<span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>; <span word="because">because</span> <span word="females">females</span> <span word="generally">generally</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="attracted">attracted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="male">male</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="assumed">assumed</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="attraction">attraction</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="mutual">mutual</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="result">result</span>, <span word="men">men</span> <span word="consistently">consistently</span> <span word="overestimated">overestimated</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="attraction">attraction</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="female">female</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="consistently">consistently</span> <span word="underestimated">underestimated</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="attraction">attraction</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="male">male</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>.</p>
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