年近三十遭遇社交危机 我还有机会认识新朋友吗？
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="article">article</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="period">period</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="BFFS">BFFS</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="teens">teens</span> <span word="and">and</span> 20<span word="s">s</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="over">over</span> – <span word="so">so</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="accumulated">accumulated</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="kinds">kinds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>?</p><p>最近的一篇文章提到，结交最好朋友的阶段是在青少年时期和20多岁这段期间，过了这段时间，结交朋友的方式会发生变化，也很难交到好朋友了。——那我现在有没有积累够合适的朋友呢？</p><p><span word="Once">Once</span>, <span word="after">after</span> <span word="spending">spending</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="straight">straight</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="alone">alone</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="flat">flat</span>, <span word="communicating">communicating</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="editor">editor</span> (<span word="via">via</span> <span word="email">email</span>) <span word="and">and</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> (<span word="via">via</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bathroom">bathroom</span> <span word="mirror">mirror</span>), <span word="I">I</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> (<span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="spoon">spoon</span>): "<span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>? <span word="You">You</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="fine">fine</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>." <span word="It">It</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="cue">cue</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="drop">drop</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="spoon">spoon</span>, <span word="get">get</span> <span word="dressed">dressed</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="plans">plans</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="soon">soon</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="possible">possible</span>.</p><p>曾经有一次，我一个人在公寓里呆了整整四天，只和编辑交流（通过电子邮件），再就是自我交流（对着镜子），我问我自己（对着勺子的背面）：“你真的需要朋友吗？你看起来自己一个人就挺不错的了。” 这提醒我扔掉勺子，穿上衣服，尽快安排和朋友见面。</p><p><span word="Earlier">Earlier</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="week">week</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="Alex">Alex</span> <span word="Williams">Williams</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="New">New</span> <span word="York">York</span> <span word="Times">Times</span> <span word="piece">piece</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="explores">explores</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="difficulties">difficulties</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="of">of</span> 30. <span word="Actual">Actual</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="shorter">shorter</span> <span word="supply">supply</span>, <span word="argues">argues</span> <span word="Williams">Williams</span>. "<span word="No">No</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="make">make</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="fatalism">fatalism</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="creep">creep</span> <span word="in">in</span>: <span word="the">the</span> <span word="period">period</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="BFFs">BFFs</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="teens">teens</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="early">early</span> 20<span word="s">s</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="over">over</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="resign">resign</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="situational">situational</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>: <span word="KOF">KOF</span>'<span word="s">s</span> (<span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>) ..."</p>
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