社交魅力课堂:7个好习惯让你更有魅力
<p><span word="There">There</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="charismatic">charismatic</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="individuals">individuals</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="there">there</span>. <span word="Professor">Professor</span> <span word="Wiseman">Wiseman</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Hertfordshire">Hertfordshire</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="UK">UK</span> <span word="estimates">estimates</span> <span word="charisma">charisma</span> <span word="is">is</span> 50% <span word="innate">innate</span> <span word="and">and</span> 50% <span word="trained">trained</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="ingredients">ingredients</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="charisma">charisma</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="actions">actions</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="with">with</span> <span word="practice">practice</span>, <span word="become">become</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="personality">personality</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="improve">improve</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="interactions">interactions</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="increasing">increasing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="overall">overall</span> <span word="satisfaction">satisfaction</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> 7 <span word="qualities">qualities</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="charismatic">charismatic</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="incorporate">incorporate</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>.</p><p>毫无疑问，你身边有魅力的人都基本上都属于最成功的人士。英国赫特福德郡大学怀斯曼教授证实，魅力一半源于天生，一半来自后天。他们列举了提升魅力值的行为，通过练习，使这些行为融入到性格里，来提升与周围人交际的能力，从而提高你整体的魅力值。下面是提升魅力的七个好习惯。</p><p>1.<span word="Listen">Listen</span> <span word="Actively">Actively</span></p><p>1.做一个积极的听众</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="listen">listen</span>, <span word="give">give</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="undivided">undivided</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>. <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="NOT">NOT</span> <span word="check">check</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> – <span word="better">better</span> <span word="yet">yet</span>, <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="check">check</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="all">all</span>! <span word="A">A</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Colorado">Colorado</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="active">active</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="helps">helps</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="misunderstandings">misunderstandings</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="opens">opens</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="more">more</span>. <span word="Actively">Actively</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="improve">improve</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="People">People</span> <span word="tend">tend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="listeners">listeners</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="people">people</span>.</p><p>当你是个听众时，一定要全神贯注，别忘了问点问题。不要在谈话过程中超过一次查看手机——最好的是，压根就不要看手机！科罗拉多大学的研究表明，做一名积极的听众可以避免误会，同时使说话人说得更多，增强你与周围人的联系，不管是同事或是室友。人们总是能会把好的听众看成积极正面的人。</p>
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