求振作?自助者天助也
<p><span word="Donna">Donna</span> <span word="Talarico">Talarico</span> <span word="sat">sat</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="computer">computer</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="morning">morning</span>, <span word="stared">stared</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="screen">screen</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="forgotten">forgotten</span> - <span word="again">again</span>! - <span word="her">her</span> <span word="password">password</span>.</p><p>一天早上，唐娜•塔拉里科(<span word="Donna">Donna</span> <span word="Talarico">Talarico</span>)坐在电脑前，眼睛直直地看着屏幕，发觉自己──又忘了登录密码！</p><p><span word="She">She</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="financial">financial</span> <span word="difficulties">difficulties</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="reading">reading</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="help">help</span> <span word="books">books</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="boost">boost</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="mood">mood</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="confidence">confidence</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="books">books</span> <span word="talked">talked</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="power">power</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="affirmation">affirmation</span> - <span word="which">which</span> <span word="gave">gave</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="idea">idea</span>: <span word="She">She</span> <span word="changed">changed</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="various">various</span> <span word="passwords">passwords</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="private">private</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="herself">herself</span>, <span word="like">like</span> '<span word="imawe">imawe</span>$<span word="some">some</span>1' <span word="or">or</span> '<span word="dogoodworktoday">dogoodworktoday</span>.'</p><p>那段时间，塔拉里科遇到些财务问题，正在阅读励志书籍，以期重振旗鼓、提升自信。励志书中谈到积极肯定的力量，让她灵感突发：于是她把自己的各种验证密码都改成了一些带有自我积极暗示的字词或句子，例如“<span word="imawe">imawe</span>$<span word="some">some</span>1”、“<span word="dogoodworktoday">dogoodworktoday</span>”等等。</p><p>'<span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="simple">simple</span>,' <span word="says">says</span> <span word="the">the</span> 34-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="marketing">marketing</span> <span word="manager">manager</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Elizabethtown">Elizabethtown</span> <span word="College">College</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Pennsylvania">Pennsylvania</span>. '<span word="It">It</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="reinforces">reinforces</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="person">person</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="into">into</span>.'</p><p>塔拉里科现年34岁，在宾夕法尼亚州伊丽莎白城学院(<span word="Elizabethtown">Elizabethtown</span> <span word="College">College</span>)担任市场经理。她回忆说，“那个密码应该是很简单的一句话，只是强调你是一个好人、可以做好任何自己想尝试的事情之类的。”</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="times">times</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="stress">stress</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="networks">networks</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="utterly">utterly</span> <span word="alone">alone</span>. <span word="We">We</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="advised">advised</span> <span word="to">to</span> '<span word="buck">buck</span> <span word="up">up</span>,' '<span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>' (<span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="paid">paid</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="listen">listen</span>) <span word="or">or</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pill">pill</span>. <span word="Wouldn">Wouldn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="comfort">comfort</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="supportive">supportive</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span>?</p>
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