眼睛会说话：眼神透露出的10个重要讯息
<p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="called">called</span> “<span word="windows">windows</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="soul">soul</span>”. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="facial">facial</span> <span word="expressions">expressions</span>, <span word="our">our</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="lie">lie</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="portray">portray</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span>, <span word="reflect">reflect</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lightest">lightest</span> <span word="shades">shades</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span>, <span word="express">express</span> <span word="interest">interest</span>, <span word="boredom">boredom</span>, <span word="surprise">surprise</span>, <span word="approval">approval</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="disbelief">disbelief</span>. <span word="Without">Without</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="spoken">spoken</span>, <span word="our">our</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="power">power</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="attract">attract</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="judge">judge</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="frighten">frighten</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="caress">caress</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="witnessed">witnessed</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="parent">parent</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="hush">hush</span> <span word="playful">playful</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="them">them</span> ‘<span word="the">the</span> <span word="look">look</span>’. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="flirt">flirt</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="table">table</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="word">word</span>.</p><p>人们通常将眼睛称为“心灵的窗户”，这不是没有道理的。尽管我们可以选择话语、控制某些面部表情，但是我们的眼睛绝不会说谎。它们透露了我们的想 法，反映了我们情绪中最细微的差别，表达了我们的兴趣、厌倦、惊奇、同意或是不信任。即便不说一句话，我们的眼睛也具有吸引、判断、恐吓和爱抚的能力。你 大概亲眼目睹过家长经常只是通过一个“眼神”就让顽皮的孩子安静下来，或者一对年轻的恋人隔桌相望，不说只字片语却互送秋波。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="language">language</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="powerful">powerful</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="effective">effective</span> <span word="tools">tools</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="verbal">verbal</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="times">times</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="success">success</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="interview">interview</span>, <span word="during">during</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="negotiations">negotiations</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="depends">depends</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="convey">convey</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="interpret">interpret</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="correctly">correctly</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> 10 <span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="Important">Important</span> <span word="Eye">Eye</span> <span word="Expressions">Expressions</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="witness">witness</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="day">day</span>:</p>
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