A Good Listener 一个好的聆听者
<p><span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="stage">stage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="applause">applause</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="audiences">audiences</span>. <span word="Such">Such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="persons">persons</span>, <span word="Bill">Bill</span> <span word="Gates">Gates</span>, <span word="Steve">Steve</span> <span word="Jobs">Jobs</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="on">on</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="go">go</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="receive">receive</span> <span word="respect">respect</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="praise">praise</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="Successful">Successful</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="everywhere">everywhere</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="listeners">listeners</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ordinary">ordinary</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="mood">mood</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="relieve">relieve</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="emotion">emotion</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="annoyance">annoyance</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="annoyance">annoyance</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="depressed">depressed</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="listener">listener</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="babbling">babbling</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="given">given</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span>. <span word="People">People</span> <span word="seek">seek</span> <span word="comfort">comfort</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="relieve">relieve</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="emotion">emotion</span>. <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="listener">listener</span> <span word="helps">helps</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="win">win</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="respect">respect</span>.</p><p>大多数人都享受舞台和来自观众的掌声。比如成功人士：比尔盖茨，史蒂夫?乔布斯等等，无论他们去到哪里，都可以得到尊重和赞美。成功的人到处都有，他们有很多的听众，但是对于普通人来说，他们也需要有人说说话。当我们心情不好时，缓解负面情绪的最好方法是找人倾听我们的烦恼，如果我们心中的烦恼无法排出去，就会很容易感到沮丧。一个聆听者的工作就是听别人说话，通常他不需要给太多的意见。人们从他人那里寻求安慰，因为他们想要缓解所有的不良情绪。作为一名好的倾听者，能够帮助我们赢得更多的尊重。</p>
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