数字时代的恋爱指南：分手了照片短信怎么办？
<p><span word="After">After</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="split">split</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="abandoned">abandoned</span> <span word="attic">attic</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="stuff">stuff</span>: <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="drive">drive</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="inbox">inbox</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="stuff">stuff</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="matter">matter</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="does">does</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="stuff">stuff</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="hurts">hurts</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="stuff">stuff</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="loved">loved</span>. <span word="What">What</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="it">it</span>?</p><p>分手后，你身边多了一堆几乎能丢弃到阁楼的东西：手机上、电脑上、邮箱里，到处都是它们的身影。它们曾经是对你而言很重要的东西，现在依旧是。它们是能勾起你眼泪的东西，也是你曾爱过的东西。你该拿它们怎么办？</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="impossible">impossible</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="plow">plow</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="committed">committed</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="industrialized">industrialized</span> <span word="nation">nation</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="piling">piling</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="abundant">abundant</span> <span word="digital">digital</span> <span word="record">record</span>. <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="chat">chat</span> <span word="transcripts">transcripts</span>, <span word="tagged">tagged</span> <span word="photos">photos</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="Facebook">Facebook</span>, <span word="beautiful">beautiful</span> <span word="photos">photos</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="DSLR">DSLR</span>, <span word="email">email</span> <span word="letters">letters</span>, <span word="Skype">Skype</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="screenshots">screenshots</span>, <span word="texts">texts</span>—<span word="so">so</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="texts">texts</span>. <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="instinct">instinct</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="throw">throw</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="away">away</span>.</p><p>在这个发达的工业化国家，一段认真的感情结束后必然会留下大量的数字记录。你们的聊天记录、<span word="Facebook">Facebook</span>上标着名字的合影、数码相机里的美丽合照、邮件往来、<span word="Skype">Skype</span>网络电话的截图、手机短信……大量的手机短信。你的第一想法肯定是把它们全扔光、删光吧。</p><p><span word="That">That</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reflex">reflex</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="ashamed">ashamed</span> <span word="of">of</span>—<span word="just">just</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="wouldn">wouldn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stare">stare</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="framed">framed</span> <span word="photo">photo</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ex">ex</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="hurting">hurting</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="hundreds">hundreds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="JPEGs">JPEGs</span> <span word="detailing">detailing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="either">either</span>. <span word="We">We</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="hypersensitive">hypersensitive</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="happens">happens</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="hyper">hyper</span>-<span word="info">info</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="grains">grains</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="salt">salt</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="catch">catch</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="wound">wound</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="before">before</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="easy">easy</span>—<span word="but">but</span> <span word="let">let</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="try">try</span>.</p>
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