现代婚恋观的挑战:80后幸福在何方?
<p><span word="Although">Although</span> 40,000 <span word="people">people</span> <span word="gathered">gathered</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="May">May</span> 26<span word="th">th</span> <span word="and">and</span> 27<span word="th">th</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="Shanghai">Shanghai</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="Matchmaking">Matchmaking</span> <span word="Expo">Expo</span>, <span word="Yu">Yu</span> <span word="Bin">Bin</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="among">among</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="Mr">Mr</span> <span word="Yu">Yu</span>, <span word="a">a</span> 26-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="policeman">policeman</span>, <span word="describes">describes</span> <span word="himself">himself</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="conservative">conservative</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="with">with</span> "<span word="traditional">traditional</span> <span word="virtues">virtues</span>". <span word="His">His</span> <span word="attendance">attendance</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="expo">expo</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="city">city</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="largest">largest</span> <span word="yet">yet</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="shot">shot</span>; <span word="he">he</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="prefer">prefer</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="worked">worked</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span> 30 <span word="years">years</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="says">says</span>.</p><p>尽管5月26日至27日有四万人参加了上海婚恋博览会，但余斌（音）并不期望在其中找到另一半。余先生今年26岁，是一名警察，自认为是一名保守的男人，正在寻找一位拥有"传统美德"的女性。他参加这次婚恋博览会（尽管这是上海市最大的一次了），成功找到另一半的机会相当渺茫；他更希望通过同事或父母介绍对象。他说，30年前，父母们的婚姻就是这样建立起来的。</p><p><span word="On">On</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="side">side</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="vast">vast</span> <span word="expo">expo</span> <span word="park">park</span>, <span word="Fancy">Fancy</span> <span word="Huang">Huang</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="arguing">arguing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>. <span word="At">At</span> 25, <span word="Ms">Ms</span> <span word="Huang">Huang</span> (<span word="who">who</span> <span word="chose">chose</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="English">English</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="herself">herself</span>) <span word="is">is</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="shy">shy</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dreaded">dreaded</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="branded">branded</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shengnu">shengnu</span>, <span word="or">or</span> "<span word="leftover">leftover</span> <span word="woman">woman</span>". <span word="Her">Her</span> <span word="cousins">cousins</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="married">married</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="applying">applying</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span>. <span word="Ms">Ms</span> <span word="Huang">Huang</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="stewing">stewing</span>. "<span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="buy">buy</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="flat">flat</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="herself">herself</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="alone">alone</span>," <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>. "<span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="bizarre">bizarre</span>."</p><p>在宽阔世博园的另一边，范希·黄正在与她的母亲争论。黄女士（她的英文名是自己取的）今年25岁，再过两年，她将会被人称为剩女。她的表兄妹们都已经结婚了，因此她的父母正在催她结婚。黄女士的母亲焦虑不安。她说："有时我的女儿说她宁愿自己买一套房子一个人生活。这太奇怪了。"</p>
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