烂记性伤不起：如何记住新认识的人名字？
<p><span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="within">within</span> <span word="seconds">seconds</span> <span word="completely">completely</span> <span word="forgotten">forgotten</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="name">name</span>? (<span word="Haven">Haven</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="all">all</span>.)</p><p>你有没有试过在新认识某人后，几秒钟后就完全忘掉这个人的名字？（这样的情况，我们都囧过….）</p><p><span word="Remembering">Remembering</span> <span word="people">people</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="names">names</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="crucial">crucial</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="factors">factors</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="productive">productive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="life">life</span>.</p><p>如果你想在生活中建立紧密的人际关系，那么记住人们的名字显得至关重要。我们都明白，要想有一个飞黄腾达的人生，紧密的人际关系是成功的关键因素之一。</p><p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="name">name</span>? <span word="And">And</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="awkward">awkward</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="utter">utter</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="fatal">fatal</span> <span word="words">words</span>: “<span word="sorry">sorry</span> – <span word="what">what</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="again">again</span>?”</p><p>那么，为什么要记住一个人的名字是如此的困难呢？于是，我们必须得确保自己在尴尬中不会更尴尬，否则我们都会犯这样的致命：“额，抱歉，你的名字是？”</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="forget">forget</span> <span word="names">names</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> ‘<span word="focus">focus</span>’ <span word="our">our</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="soon">soon</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="introduced">introduced</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="new">new</span>, <span word="our">our</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="racing">racing</span> <span word="ahead">ahead</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> ‘<span word="what">what</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="next">next</span>’ <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="pay">pay</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="told">told</span>.</p><p>我们会忘了别人的名字，其中一个原因是我们没有将注意力放在那人身上。每当我们向新认识的人做自我介绍时，我们会思考下一句话说什么，所以就会略过对方刚刚提到过的名字。</p>
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