The Power of Introverts 内向者的力量
<p><span word="Today">Today</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="room">room</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="remarkably">remarkably</span> <span word="narrow">narrow</span> <span word="range">range</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="personality">personality</span> <span word="styles">styles</span>.<span word="We">We</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="bold">bold</span>,<span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="sociable">sociable</span>.<span word="We">We</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="nation">nation</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="extroverts">extroverts</span>——<span word="which">which</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="lost">lost</span> <span word="sight">sight</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="are">are</span>. <span word="One">One</span>-<span word="third">third</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="one">one</span>-<span word="half">half</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Americans">Americans</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="introverts">introverts</span>——<span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="words">words</span>, <span word="one">one</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="er">er</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="introvert">introvert</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="surely">surely</span> <span word="raising">raising</span>, <span word="managing">managing</span>, <span word="married">married</span> <span word="to">to</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="coupled">coupled</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="one">one</span>.</p><p>如今，我们接受的性格类型极其有限。我们被告知，要出众就得有胆识，要快乐就得擅交际。我们自认是个由性格外向者组成的国家——这意味着我们忽视了真实的自我。三分之一到一半的美国人性格内向——换言之，你认识的每两到三个人中就有一个内向者。如果你本人不内向，那你的子女、同事、配偶或伴侣中肯定有一个是内向的。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="statistics">statistics</span> <span word="surprise">surprise</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="pretend">pretend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="extroverts">extroverts</span>.<span word="Closet">Closet</span> <span word="introverts">introverts</span> <span word="pass">pass</span> <span word="undetected">undetected</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="playgrounds">playgrounds</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="locker">locker</span> <span word="rooms">rooms</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="corridors">corridors</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="corproate">corproate</span> <span word="America">America</span>.<span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="fool">fool</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>, <span word="until">until</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="event">event</span>——<span word="a">a</span> <span word="layoff">layoff</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="empty">empty</span> <span word="nest">nest</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="inheritance">inheritance</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="frees">frees</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="like">like</span>——<span word="jolts">jolts</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="stock">stock</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="natures">natures</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="subject">subject</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="acquaitances">acquaitances</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="unlikely">unlikely</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="consider">consider</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="introverts">introverts</span>.</p>
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