社交课堂：超简单5招让对话继续
<p><span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="tough">tough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="going">going</span>. <span word="Take">Take</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="familiar">familiar</span> <span word="scenario">scenario</span>:</p><p>有时如何让对话继续是件难事，比如说下面这个场景有没有一点似曾相似？</p><p><span word="You">You</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="met">met</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="starting">starting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stall">stall</span>. <span word="With">With</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="passing">passing</span> <span word="second">second</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="silence">silence</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="awkwardness">awkwardness</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="rack">rack</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="brain">brain</span>, <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="topic">topic</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mind">mind</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="blank">blank</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="excuses">excuses</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="leave">leave</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="walk">walk</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ponder">ponder</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span></p><p>你和一个刚刚遇到的人说着话，但谈话开始变得僵硬。随着沉闷一分一秒的加剧，场面变得越来越尴尬。你绞尽脑汁试图提出一个新话题，但你脑袋里却是一片空白。你为自己找了一个借口离开了。当你走开的时候，你开始思考到底是哪里出了问题呢。</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="worry">worry</span>; <span word="it">it</span> <span word="happens">happens</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="knowing">knowing</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="skill">skill</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="possess">possess</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span> <span word="keeping">keeping</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="going">going</span> , <span word="you">you</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="miss">miss</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="person">person</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> 5 <span word="tips">tips</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="again">again</span>.</p><p>不用担心，即使是最健谈的人也会碰上这种情况。但知道如何让谈话继续下去，是一种极好的技能。如果你在这方面遇到了问题，那你极有可能错失了认识一个还不错的人的机会。这里的5个技巧将保证你不会再陷入那种尴尬境地。</p>
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