赞美反招女人怨？研究揭示赞美之道
<p><span word="Want">Want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="insult">insult</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span>? <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span>.</p><p><span word="Only">Only</span> <span word="half">half</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="praised">praised</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="misinterpret">misinterpret</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="offensive">offensive</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="research">research</span>.</p><p><span word="And">And</span> "<span word="you">you</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="well">well</span>" <span word="is">is</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="worst">worst</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> - <span word="because">because</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="thinks">thinks</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="fat">fat</span>.</p><p><span word="Other">Other</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="backfire">backfire</span> <span word="include">include</span> <span word="telling">telling</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="make">make</span>-<span word="up">up</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="dress">dress</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="figure">figure</span> <span word="hugging">hugging</span>.</p><p><span word="Calling">Calling</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> "<span word="curvy">curvy</span>" <span word="or">or</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="father">father</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="absolute">absolute</span> <span word="no">no</span>-<span word="nos">nos</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="survey">survey</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="ring">ring</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="husbands">husbands</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="decided">decided</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="ago">ago</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="paying">paying</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="wives">wives</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="worth">worth</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="minefield">minefield</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="revealed">revealed</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="survey">survey</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="health">health</span>-<span word="care">care</span> <span word="company">company</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="interviewed">interviewed</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 2,000 <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span>.</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="view">view</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span> <span word="as">as</span> "<span word="back">back</span> <span word="handed">handed</span>" <span word="and">and</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="throw">throw</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="face">face</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="mention">mention</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="weight">weight</span> <span word="loss">loss</span>, <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="thinner">thinner</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="normal">normal</span>.</p><p><span word="Around">Around</span> 43 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="surveyed">surveyed</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span>.</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="further">further</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="in">in</span> 10 <span word="are">are</span> <span word="happiest">happiest</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="comments">comments</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="gorgeous">gorgeous</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>.</p><p><span word="Focusing">Focusing</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="smells">smells</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="hair">hair</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="beautiful">beautiful</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="unlikely">unlikely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="misinterpreted">misinterpreted</span>.</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="fat">fat</span>.</p>
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