婚前必须想清七大问题：别让自己嫁得不明不白
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="New">New</span> <span word="York">York</span> <span word="Times">Times</span> <span word="reported">reported</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="half">half</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="births">births</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="US">US</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="younger">younger</span> <span word="than">than</span> 30 <span word="occurred">occurred</span> <span word="outside">outside</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="in">in</span> 2009. <span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ongoing">ongoing</span> <span word="rise">rise</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="births">births</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="unmarried">unmarried</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="occurred">occurred</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="together">together</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="unmarried">unmarried</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="married">married</span>?</p><p>《纽约时报》报道，在2009年，30岁前怀孕的美国女性中有超过半数是未婚生子。这一数据目前还在持续增长。这里面的很多女性是跟爱人处在未婚同居的状况。为什么她们不想结婚？</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="seven">seven</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="areas">areas</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="answered">answered</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="question">question</span>, “<span word="What">What</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="known">known</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="married">married</span>?” <span word="mentioned">mentioned</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="frequently">frequently</span>。</p><p>对此我进行了一个调查，我的问题是“什么是你在结婚前最想知道的事情？” 以下7件事是她们提到次数最多的回答：</p><p>1. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="d">d</span> <span word="known">known</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="like">like</span>。</p><p>我希望自己知道婚姻的真实面目。</p><p><span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="information">information</span> (<span word="really">really</span> <span word="misinformation">misinformation</span>) <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="supposed">supposed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="media">media</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="believed">believed</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="reality">reality</span> <span word="struck">struck</span>。</p><p>婚姻应该是什么样的？大部分女性都是从媒体获得的相关信息(其实都是错误信息)，她们对这些深信不疑，直到受到现实的冲击。</p><p>2. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="d">d</span> <span word="known">known</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>。</p><p>我希望我更了解自己。</p>
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