人在33岁后开始变得无私
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="fed">fed</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="obsessed">obsessed</span> <span word="twenty">twenty</span>-<span word="somethings">somethings</span>, <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="be">be</span> 33 <span word="one">one</span> <span word="day">day</span>.</p><p><span word="For">For</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="the">the</span> '<span word="all">all</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="me">me</span>' <span word="attitude">attitude</span>, <span word="research">research</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span>.</p><p><span word="By">By</span> <span word="then">then</span>, <span word="youthful">youthful</span> <span word="selfishness">selfishness</span> <span word="subsides">subsides</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="consider">consider</span> <span word="others">others</span>' <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="often">often</span>, <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="say">say</span>.</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="reach">reach</span> 33, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="grandparents">grandparents</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="attitude">attitude</span> <span word="towards">towards</span> <span word="ending">ending</span> <span word="feuds">feuds</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="older">older</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="get">get</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="selfless">selfless</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="almost">almost</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="areas">areas</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="life">life</span> – <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="exception">exception</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="volunteering">volunteering</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="community">community</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="report">report</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span>.</p><p><span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="turning">turning</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="changing">changing</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="attitudes">attitudes</span> <span word="towards">towards</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>.</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="apparently">apparently</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="worrying">worrying</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="checking">checking</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="home">home</span>, <span word="offering">offering</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="childcare">childcare</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="airport">airport</span> <span word="runs">runs</span>.</p><p><span word="And">And</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="neighbours">neighbours</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="seats">seats</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="elderly">elderly</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="public">public</span> <span word="transport">transport</span>.</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="involved">involved</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="community">community</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="donate">donate</span> <span word="money">money</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="causes">causes</span>.</p><p><span word="Those">Those</span> <span word="under">under</span> 33 <span word="are">are</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="admit">admit</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span> – <span word="with">with</span> 40 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="circumstances">circumstances</span>.</p><p><span word="However">However</span>, 40 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="group">group</span> <span word="regularly">regularly</span> <span word="volunteer">volunteer</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="charity">charity</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="community">community</span> – <span word="higher">higher</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="group">group</span>.</p>
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