助你走好人生路的成功贴士(上)
<p>1 <span word="Stop">Stop</span> <span word="caring">caring</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="opinion">opinion</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>对外人的评价保持淡定。</p><p><span word="For">For</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="part">part</span>, <span word="what">what</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="matter">matter</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="younger">younger</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="early">early</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="peers">peers</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="times">times</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="steered">steered</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="goals">goals</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="strongly">strongly</span> <span word="believed">believed</span> <span word="in">in</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="now">now</span>, <span word="many">many</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="later">later</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="foolish">foolish</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="live">live</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="consider">consider</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="nearly">nearly</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="cared">cared</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="longer">longer</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="life">life</span>.</p><p>大多数情况下，别人怎么看、怎么议论你并不重要。在我读高中和刚进大学那会儿，我做决定时很容易受同学影响。有时，他们会驱使我放弃强大的信念和目标。多年后的今天，我才意识到，那样的生活方式很不明智。特别是当我发现，那些曾提出被我视为“宝贵意见”的人，现在几乎全都离开了我的生活圈。</p><p><span word="Unless">Unless</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="impression">impression</span> (<span word="job">job</span> <span word="interview">interview</span>, <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>.), <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="stand">stand</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="way">way</span>.<span word="What">What</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="Read">Read</span> <span word="The">The</span> 7 <span word="Habits">Habits</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Highly">Highly</span> <span word="Effective">Effective</span> <span word="People">People</span>.</p><p>除非你想留个好的第一印象（工作面试、初次约会等需要），否则别让他人的看法妨碍你。你自己对自己的感觉才是重要的。建议去读《高效人士的7个习惯》这本书。</p><p>2 <span word="Stop">Stop</span> <span word="caring">caring</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="politically">politically</span> <span word="correct">correct</span>.</p>
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