不要再对单身人士说这些话了
<p><span word="Stop">Stop</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="people">people</span></p><p>不要再对单身人士说这些话了</p><p>"<span word="How">How</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="single">single</span>?"</p><p>“你怎么还是单身啊？”</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="attractive">attractive</span>, <span word="smart">smart</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="funny">funny</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="hasn">hasn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="yet">yet</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="implies">implies</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="normal">normal</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="forces">forces</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="justify">justify</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>.</p><p>当你十分不理解你那风趣、聪慧、有魅力的朋友为何还没找到另一半时，这通常是一句恭维话。但这也意味着，正常人不应该一直单着。同时，这会迫使单身人士为他们不谈恋爱的行为做出辩解。</p><p>"<span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="picky">picky</span>."</p><p>“你太挑了。”</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="backward">backward</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="implies">implies</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="ignore">ignore</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="standards">standards</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sake">sake</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="picky">picky</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="settle">settle</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="standards">standards</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="finding">finding</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="otherwise">otherwise</span>.</p><p>从反向角度而言，这句话意味着：为了谈恋爱，单身人士应该忽略自己的求偶标准。挑剔总好过将就。而且，以高标准寻找另一半又何错之有呢？所以，不要再对单身人士说这句话了。</p><p>"<span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span>?"</p><p>“你在约会吗？”</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="irritating">irritating</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="haven">haven</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="while">while</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="mentioning">mentioning</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Otherwise">Otherwise</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="status">status</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="instead">instead</span>.</p>
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