揭秘领袖性格：你是“阿尔法人格”吗
<p>自信，有主见，勇于承担责任，也喜欢指挥他人。你是这样的人吗？有调查显示，有这样“阿尔法人格”的人更容易当领导。你觉得呢？</p><p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="label">label</span> <span word="implies">implies</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="Alpha">Alpha</span> <span word="personality">personality</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="top">top</span> <span word="dogs">dogs</span>—<span word="the">the</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="clearly">clearly</span> <span word="calling">calling</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="shots">shots</span>。</p><p>从字面就可以看出，阿尔法人格的人就是那些乐于当老大、喜欢自己说了算的人。</p><p><span word="Alphas">Alphas</span> <span word="reach">reach</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="top">top</span> <span word="ranks">ranks</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="large">large</span> <span word="organizations">organizations</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="leaders">leaders</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="Alphas">Alphas</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="be">be</span>. <span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="stress">stress</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span>: <span word="Alphas">Alphas</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="stressed">stressed</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="tough">tough</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="rest">rest</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="capable">capable</span> <span word="hands">hands</span>. <span word="For">For</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="being">being</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="charge">charge</span> <span word="delivers">delivers</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="thrill">thrill</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="willingly">willingly</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="levels">levels</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="rational">rational</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="overwhelming">overwhelming</span>。</p><p>他们在大型机构身居高位是因为他们天生就是领袖人物。他们乐于承担责任的能力是普通人永远都达不到的。大多数人要做重要决定的时候都会觉得压力很大；而对阿尔法人格的人来说，如果重大的决策落入旁人之手，那他们才会有压力呢。 在他们看来，做个主事儿的人是如此令人兴奋的事情，所以他们很愿意承担起多数人都会觉得过于沉重的担子。</p><p><span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="Alphas">Alphas</span> <span word="assess">assess</span> <span word="information">information</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="situations">situations</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="rapid">rapid</span> <span word="processing">processing</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="prevent">prevent</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span>—<span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="communicate">communicate</span> <span word="in">in</span> “<span word="Alpha">Alpha</span>-<span word="speak">speak</span>。” <span word="Their">Their</span> <span word="impatience">impatience</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="thus">thus</span> <span word="cause">cause</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="miss">miss</span> <span word="subtle">subtle</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="details">details</span>. <span word="Alphas">Alphas</span>, <span word="moreover">moreover</span>, <span word="have">have</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="everything">everything</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="rarely">rarely</span> <span word="admit">admit</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="incomplete">incomplete</span>. <span word="Early">Early</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="Alphas">Alphas</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="smarter">smarter</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="people">people</span>—<span word="perhaps">perhaps</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="smarter">smarter</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="teachers">teachers</span>; <span word="as">as</span> <span word="adults">adults</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="insights">insights</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="unique">unique</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="therefore">therefore</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="complete">complete</span> <span word="faith">faith</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="instincts">instincts</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span>。</p>
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