爱笑的人运气好 事实告诉你这种说法是真的
<p>大家都说爱笑的人运气不会差到哪里去，有没有发现你身边整天笑容满面的人运气也不错呢？事实上他们不是因为运气好而笑，而是因为爱笑而运气好哦！</p><p><span word="People">People</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="smiling">smiling</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="groups">groups</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="signal">signal</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="smiles">smiles</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="specific">specific</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="purposes">purposes</span>.</p><p>人们经常会笑，特别是在一个团队里的时候，其实笑并不代表他就快乐。我们笑是为了迎合某些社交目的。</p><p>1. <span word="Get">Get</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="you">you</span></p><p>1. 让别人相信你</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="signal">signal</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="trustworthy">trustworthy</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>. <span word="Genuine">Genuine</span> <span word="smiles">smiles</span> <span word="send">send</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="cooperate">cooperate</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="Economists">Economists</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="consider">consider</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="smiles">smiles</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="value">value</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Scharlemann">Scharlemann</span> <span word="et">et</span> <span word="al">al</span>. (2001) <span word="participants">participants</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="smiling">smiling</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="increased">increased</span> <span word="people">people</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="willingness">willingness</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="about">about</span> 10%.</p><p>微笑能给别人发出一种信号，告诉他们我是值得相信的。经济学家甚至认为微笑是有价值的。在<span word="Scharlemann">Scharlemann</span>等学者做的一项研究中，研究结果显示如果你对对方微笑的话，对方会更加愿意相信你的话。研究结果还显示，微笑能让对方相信你的话意愿增加10%。</p><p>2. <span word="Smile">Smile</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="leniency">leniency</span></p><p>2. 让别人放你一马</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="caught">caught</span>. <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="benefit">benefit</span>? <span word="According">According</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="conducted">conducted</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="LaFrance">LaFrance</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Hecht">Hecht</span> (1995), <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="treat">treat</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="broken">broken</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rules">rules</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="leniency">leniency</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="afterwards">afterwards</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="false">false</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="miserable">miserable</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="transgressor">transgressor</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="break">break</span>.</p>
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