夫妻共同朋友圈可致丈夫性冷淡
<p> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="easier">easier</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="gets">gets</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="pals">pals</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="spell">spell</span> <span word="disaster">disaster</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bedroom">bedroom</span>。</p><p><span word="Middle">Middle</span>-<span word="aged">aged</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="suffer">suffer</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="severe">severe</span> <span word="loss">loss</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="drive">drive</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="claims">claims</span>。</p><p><span word="Scientists">Scientists</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="normally">normally</span> <span word="completely">completely</span> <span word="harmless">harmless</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="effect">effect</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="husband">husband</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="power">power</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="masculinity">masculinity</span>。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="health">health</span> <span word="records">records</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="details">details</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="activities">activities</span> <span word="of">of</span> 3,000 <span word="men">men</span> <span word="aged">aged</span> <span word="between">between</span> 57 <span word="and">and</span> 85. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="reported">reported</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="lives">lives</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="circle">circle</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="wife">wife</span>。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="scientists">scientists</span>, <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Universities">Universities</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Chicago">Chicago</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Cornell">Cornell</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="New">New</span> <span word="York">York</span>, <span word="have">have</span> <span word="labelled">labelled</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> "<span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="betweenness">betweenness</span>"。</p><p><span word="Writing">Writing</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="American">American</span> <span word="Journal">Journal</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Sociology">Sociology</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="authors">authors</span> <span word="said">said</span>: "<span word="In">In</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="cases">cases</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="female">female</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="confidants">confidants</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="does">does</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sexual">sexual</span> <span word="desire">desire</span>."</p><p>"<span word="In">In</span> <span word="effect">effect</span>, <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="betweenness">betweenness</span> <span word="undermines">undermines</span> <span word="men">men</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="autonomy">autonomy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="privacy">privacy</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="central">central</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="traditional">traditional</span> <span word="concepts">concepts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="masculinity">masculinity</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="overt">overt</span> <span word="conflict">conflict</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="satisfaction">satisfaction</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="attraction">attraction</span>."</p><p><span word="Separate">Separate</span> <span word="figures">figures</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="low">low</span> <span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="drive">drive</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="caused">caused</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="age">age</span>, <span word="illness">illness</span>, <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="medications">medications</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sleep">sleep</span>。</p>
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