探究情侣分手的三大深层原因
<p><span word="Based">Based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="intrinsic">intrinsic</span> <span word="complexity">complexity</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="endless">endless</span> <span word="number">number</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="fail">fail</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> 3 <span word="primary">primary</span> <span word="factors">factors</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="basis">basis</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="stems">stems</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="turns">turns</span> <span word="sour">sour</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> 1 <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> 3 <span word="factors">factors</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="blame">blame</span>.</p><p>基于每个人感受天生的复杂性，有无数的原因会导致情侣分手。然而，我认为有3条主要的因素是导致其他所有问题的根源。如果一段感情开始变坏，那么可以肯定这3条因素里面至少有一条是罪魁祸首。</p><p>1. <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="her">her</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="gestures">gestures</span>? – <span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="loves">loves</span> <span word="attention">attention</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="member">member</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="aware">aware</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="feels">feels</span> <span word="good">good</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="repeat">repeat</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="action">action</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="times">times</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="return">return</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="favor">favor</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shallow">shallow</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="forms">forms</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="measure">measure</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="compatibility">compatibility</span> <span word="occurs">occurs</span> <span word="shortly">shortly</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="after">after</span>. <span word="Once">Once</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="initial">initial</span> <span word="excitement">excitement</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="wears">wears</span> <span word="thin">thin</span>, <span word="what">what</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="with">with</span>? <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="gestures">gestures</span>? <span word="On">On</span> <span word="occasion">occasion</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="actions">actions</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dislike">dislike</span>. <span word="Likewise">Likewise</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="dislike">dislike</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="actions">actions</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="like">like</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="sides">sides</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="capable">capable</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="distinguishing">distinguishing</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span>.</p><p>我真的喜欢她这个人？还是说你只是喜欢她表现出的姿态？——每个人都喜欢受人瞩目。如果一大堆异性特意地去引起你的注意，你会感到很棒。如果他（她）们这样再来几次，而你也给以相应的回报，那么一段浅层的感情就建立起来了。而能否和睦相处的真正考验在不久后就会来临。一旦最初对于这种关注的兴奋慢慢退去，你们还剩下什么？你真的喜欢那个人吗，还是你只是喜欢他（她）们表现出的姿态？你喜欢的人有时会表现出你不喜欢的行为，同样你不喜欢的人有时也会表现出你喜欢的行为从而引起你的注意。要理解并能够分辨出这两者之间的区别是非常重要的。</p>
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