为何不该以离婚为耻?
<p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="grew">grew</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="wanting">wanting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="swore">swore</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="mess">mess</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="spouse">spouse</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="children">children</span>.</p><p>我父母离婚了，所以我从小就渴望不一样的生活。我发誓：我决不会让我的家人经历这种困境。我会为了孩子尽可能的不离婚。</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="day">day</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="running">running</span> <span word="errands">errands</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="particularly">particularly</span> <span word="horrible">horrible</span> <span word="rough">rough</span> <span word="patch">patch</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="husband">husband</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="deep">deep</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fix">fix</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="situation">situation</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="saw">saw</span> <span word="mutual">mutual</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="ours">ours</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span>, <span word="were">were</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="gas">gas</span> <span word="station">station</span> <span word="parking">parking</span> <span word="lot">lot</span>, <span word="trading">trading</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>. <span word="Their">Their</span> <span word="pain">pain</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="palpable">palpable</span>. <span word="After">After</span> <span word="witnessing">witnessing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="thought">thought</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wouldn">wouldn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="bear">bear</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>有段时间我和丈夫特别不合，有一天我正和孩子跑腿买东西，当时的我还在认真思考该如何化解我们的困境。然后，我看到了我俩共同的朋友（他们正在办离婚手续）站在加油站停车场上，互相交换孩子。显而易见，他们是痛苦的。见证他们互看彼此的情景之后，我想，我和爱人永远都不会发生这种情况。我肯定无法忍受这种痛苦。</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="dug">dug</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="heels">heels</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="years">years</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="tried">tried</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="tried">tried</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ultimately">ultimately</span> <span word="failed">failed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="repair">repair</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>. <span word="My">My</span> <span word="ex">ex</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="together">together</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="unbearable">unbearable</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="roof">roof</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>.</p>
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