替孩子去拼！美国“扫雪机父母”成主流
<p>前一阵的美国大学招生舞弊案暴露出了一批“扫雪机父母”，这种父母就像扫雪机一样披荆斩棘，为孩子清除人生路上的一切障碍。但是专家表示，这种育儿方式其实很落后。</p><p><span word="Move">Move</span> <span word="over">over</span>, <span word="helicopter">helicopter</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>. "<span word="Snowplow">Snowplow</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>" <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="newest">newest</span> <span word="embodiment">embodiment</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hyper">hyper</span>-<span word="intensive">intensive</span> <span word="parenting">parenting</span> <span word="style">style</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="include">include</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="booking">booking</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="adult">adult</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="haircuts">haircuts</span>, <span word="texting">texting</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="wake">wake</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="sleep">sleep</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="test">test</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="calling">calling</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>' <span word="employers">employers</span>.</p><p>“直升机父母”靠边站，如今是“扫雪机父母”的天下了。采取这种高强度育儿方式的父母会给成年子女预约理发，给上大学的孩子发短信叫他们起床去参加考试，甚至会给孩子的雇主打电话。</p><p>"<span word="Helicopter">Helicopter</span> <span word="parenting">parenting</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="practice">practice</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="hovering">hovering</span> <span word="anxiously">anxiously</span> <span word="near">near</span> <span word="one">one</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="children">children</span>, <span word="monitoring">monitoring</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="activity">activity</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="so">so</span> 20<span word="th">th</span> <span word="century">century</span>," <span word="Claire">Claire</span> <span word="Cain">Cain</span> <span word="Miller">Miller</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Jonah">Jonah</span> <span word="Engel">Engel</span> <span word="Bromwich">Bromwich</span> <span word="wrote">wrote</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="New">New</span> <span word="York">York</span> <span word="Times">Times</span>. "<span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="affluent">affluent</span> <span word="mothers">mothers</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fathers">fathers</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="snowplows">snowplows</span>: <span word="machines">machines</span> <span word="chugging">chugging</span> <span word="ahead">ahead</span>, <span word="clearing">clearing</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="obstacles">obstacles</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="child">child</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="path">path</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="success">success</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="encounter">encounter</span> <span word="failure">failure</span>, <span word="frustration">frustration</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="lost">lost</span> <span word="opportunities">opportunities</span>."</p><p>克莱尔·凯恩·米勒和约拿·恩格尔·布罗米奇在《纽约时报》写道：“焦虑地守在孩子身边、监视孩子一举一动的直升机父母已经过时了。如今一些富有的家长更像是扫雪机，轰隆隆地扫除孩子通往成功路上的所有障碍，让孩子不必遭受失败、挫折或丧失机会。”</p>
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