如何明智地解决家庭冲突?
<p>1. <span word="Target">Target</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="problem">problem</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span></p><p>1. 就事论事，不针对个人</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="member">member</span> <span word="blames">blames</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="done">done</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="careful">careful</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="defend">defend</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="cause">cause</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="valid">valid</span> <span word="point">point</span>.</p><p>如果家庭成员因为你做了某事而责怪你，那你的辩护方式十分重要。如果你的辩护方式会带来伤害，即使这种方式能让你提出有力观点，我们也不建议这么做。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="instance">instance</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="done">done</span> <span word="exactly">exactly</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="accuse">accuse</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="of">of</span>, <span word="for">for</span> <span word="example">example</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="manners">manners</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="throw">throw</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="face">face</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="choice">choice</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="respectfully">respectfully</span>.</p><p>比如，如果家庭成员指责你不应该这样做，而你却回想到他/她以前也这么做过，这时候讲出这件事打他们的脸则是不礼貌的做法，除非你别无他法。即便这样，你也应该以尊敬的态度提出此事。</p><p>2. <span word="Remember">Remember</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="different">different</span></p><p>2. 记住这一点：人和人是不同的</p><p><span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="member">member</span> <span word="habitually">habitually</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="against">against</span> <span word="reasonable">reasonable</span> <span word="wishes">wishes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="have">have</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="genuinely">genuinely</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="fundamental">fundamental</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="ways">ways</span>.</p><p>即使某个家庭成员会习惯性地反驳你的合理提议，你也应该明白，即便是最日常的东西，人们的看法也不尽相同。</p>
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