男朋友经常不回消息，怎么办？给你条建议……
<p><span word="First">First</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="text">text</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="unanswered">unanswered</span>.</p><p>先是一条短信，<span word="TA">TA</span>没回。</p><p><span word="Then">Then</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> 10. <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="calls">calls</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="voicemail">voicemail</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="silence">silence</span> <span word="grows">grows</span> <span word="deeper">deeper</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="minute">minute</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="worry">worry</span>: <span word="Could">Could</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="happened">happened</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>? <span word="What">What</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="explain">explain</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="sudden">sudden</span> <span word="disappearance">disappearance</span>?</p><p>然后就变成了十条。你打去的电话没人接，时间一分分过去，沉默越来越深。这时你可能开始担忧了：是你的朋友出了什么意外吗？不然怎么会突然没了消息呢？</p><p><span word="Eventually">Eventually</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="media">media</span> <span word="update">update</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mutual">mutual</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="answer">answer</span>. <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="confidant">confidant</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="alive">alive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="well">well</span>.</p><p>后来，社交媒体上出现了一条动态，或者你们的共同好友让你知道了答案：你从前的那位好朋友还活着，而且过得很好。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="vanished">vanished</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="ghosting">ghosting</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>只是，他从你的生活中突然消失了。他对你玩了一回“神隐”。</p><p><span word="Ghosting">Ghosting</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="cutting">cutting</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="offering">offering</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="explanation">explanation</span>, <span word="has">has</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="recently">recently</span> <span word="entered">entered</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="popular">popular</span> <span word="lexicon">lexicon</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="interactions">interactions</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="existed">existed</span>.</p><p>“神隐”，意思是不做任何解释就切断所有联系。这个词最近刚流行起来。不过，“神隐”这种行为的历史可能和人类交往的历史一样悠久。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="term">term</span> <span word="originated">originated</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="context">context</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="dating">dating</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="ghosting">ghosting</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="occurs">occurs</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="becoming">becoming</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="noticeable">noticeable</span> <span word="trend">trend</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>.</p>
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