不生小孩会被同事鄙视?
<p><span word="Hi">Hi</span>, <span word="Carolyn">Carolyn</span>: <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="children">children</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="no">no</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="expressed">expressed</span> <span word="pity">pity</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="hadn">hadn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="experienced">experienced</span> <span word="life">life</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="greatest">greatest</span> <span word="joy">joy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="couldn">couldn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="prioritize">prioritize</span> <span word="careers">careers</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="family">family</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="added">added</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="parenthood">parenthood</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="prerequisite">prerequisite</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="manager">manager</span> <span word="since">since</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="maturity">maturity</span> <span word="necessary">necessary</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="teams">teams</span>.</p><p>卡罗琳，你好！当时，我们一群同事正在闲聊，一位女士问了我一个问题，"你有孩子吗？"我回答她，没有。她表示，太遗憾了，那将是你一生中最大的快乐。她说她无法理解为什么现代女性将工作看得比家庭更重。她补充道，为人父母是成为一名优秀管理者的先决条件，因为没生小孩的女性往往缺乏领导团队所需的成熟思想。</p><p><span word="Carolyn">Carolyn</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="choice">choice</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="painful">painful</span> <span word="subject">subject</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="me">me</span>.</p><p>卡罗琳，不生孩子并非我之所愿，对我而言，这一话题非常痛苦。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="my">my</span> 20<span word="s">s</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="brushed">brushed</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="changed">changed</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="subject">subject</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> 40<span word="s">s</span> <span word="struggling">struggling</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="save">save</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="retirement">retirement</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="salary">salary</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="falls">falls</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="below">below</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="married">married</span>-<span word="with">with</span>-<span word="children">children</span> <span word="peers">peers</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="profession">profession</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="passed">passed</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="outstanding">outstanding</span> <span word="performance">performance</span> <span word="evaluations">evaluations</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="expected">expected</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="overtime">overtime</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hit">hit</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="team">team</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>, <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="resented">resented</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="belittled">belittled</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p>
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