教你分辨真假朋友
<p><span word="How">How</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="pretending">pretending</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>?</p><p>我如何知道有人在假装跟我做朋友？</p><p>获得18<span word="k">k</span> 好评的回答@<span word="Ameya">Ameya</span> <span word="Godbole">Godbole</span>：</p><p><span word="Say">Say</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="Facebook">Facebook</span> '<span word="friends">friends</span>' <span word="list">list</span> <span word="count">count</span> <span word="is">is</span> 500. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="instinct">instinct</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="strike">strike</span> <span word="off">off</span> 450 <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="hope">hope</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="signs">signs</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="identify">identify</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pretentious">pretentious</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="remaining">remaining</span> <span word="lot">lot</span>-</p><p>假如你<span word="Facebook">Facebook</span>上有500个好友，如果你跟着直觉走，立刻能排除掉450个人。我希望下面的预兆中有几个能帮你从剩下的一大批人中找出不是真朋友的人。</p><p>1. <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="help">help</span>.</p><p>1.寻求帮助。</p><p><span word="Text">Text</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span>. <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pretentious">pretentious</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="assume">assume</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="money">money</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lend">lend</span>. <span word="They">They</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="possible">possible</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="realise">realise</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="creative">creative</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="excuses">excuses</span>.</p><p>给他们发短信，但不告诉他们你需要什么帮助，只让他们跟你见面。这样做大多数假朋友都会以为你要借钱，或者找他们帮什么他们不想帮的忙，他们会尽量避免见面，这时你会发现人们在找借口时多有创造力了。</p><p>2. <span word="Notice">Notice</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="break">break</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="promises">promises</span>.</p><p>2.注意一下他们是否频繁违背承诺。</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="see">see</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="necessary">necessary</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="companionship">companionship</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="he">he</span>/<span word="she">she</span> <span word="keeps">keeps</span> <span word="canceling">canceling</span> <span word="plans">plans</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="over">over</span>, <span word="maybe">maybe</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="company">company</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fill">fill</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="void">void</span>.</p>
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