科学研究告诉你如何真正原谅并忘记某人
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="Lauren">Lauren</span> <span word="Conrad">Conrad</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="Heidi">Heidi</span> <span word="Montag">Montag</span> <span word="straight">straight</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="said">said</span> "<span word="I">I</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="forgive">forgive</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="forget">forget</span> <span word="you">you</span>" <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tension">tension</span>-<span word="filled">filled</span> <span word="episode">episode</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Hills">Hills</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="linear">linear</span> <span word="definition">definition</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mood">mood</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="one">one</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="watching">watching</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="scene">scene</span> <span word="unfold">unfold</span>, <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="Los">Los</span> <span word="Angeles">Angeles</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="cold">cold</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="admiring">admiring</span> <span word="Conrad">Conrad</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="doing">doing</span>, <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="unthinkable">unthinkable</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="day">day</span>, <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="figure">figure</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="forgive">forgive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="forget">forget</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="wipe">wipe</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="clean">clean</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="specific">specific</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="memory">memory</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="imagine">imagine</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="skill">skill</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="master">master</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="research">research</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="definitely">definitely</span> <span word="possible">possible</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="shred">shred</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="comfort">comfort</span>.</p><p>记得在《希尔山》里情感迸发的一个情节，当劳伦·康拉德深情注视着海蒂·蒙塔格，并说“我想要原谅你，如此我才能忘记你。” 这个情节成了我心中最直接的情感的定义。看着情节一步步发展，只觉得那一刻洛杉矶变得格外冰冷。我羡慕康拉德，至少对我来说，是不敢做出像她那样直接的举动的。 直到今天，我仍不明白怎样才能真正地原谅和忘却，才能把一个人从我的记忆中抹去。我不敢相信忘记是一件轻而易举的事情，但最新的研究表明，这的确是可能的，至少给了我些许宽慰。</p>
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