怎样拯救尴尬的聊天？这9个诀窍要掌握
<p>1. <span word="Pay">Pay</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span></p><p>1.称赞对方</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="pay">pay</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="repeating">repeating</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="name">name</span>, <span word="thus">thus</span> <span word="helping">helping</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="anchor">anchor</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="embed">embed</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="deeper">deeper</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="memory">memory</span>.</p><p>你第一次见到某个人时，重复对方名字时称赞对方，这有助于你记住对方的名字并加深这个记忆。</p><p>2. <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="lots">lots</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>—<span word="good">good</span> <span word="questions">questions</span></p><p>2.多问问题——问好问题</p><p><span word="How">How</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pleasure">pleasure</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>? <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>—<span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="vague">vague</span> <span word="one">one</span>-<span word="word">word</span> <span word="answers">answers</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="lay">lay</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="groundwork">groundwork</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span>.</p><p>你怎么能让聊天对象有好的聊天体验？问他们问题，问很多不是含糊的一个词就能回答的问题，这会给你们真正的友谊打下基础。</p><p>3. <span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="game">game</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="talk">talk</span></p><p>3.利用闲聊做游戏</p><p><span word="Say">Say</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="like">like</span>, ‘<span word="Tell">Tell</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="company">company</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="guess">guess</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="company">company</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span>.’ <span word="Or">Or</span>, ‘<span word="What">What</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="drinking">drinking</span>? <span word="Wait">Wait</span>—<span word="let">let</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="guess">guess</span>.’.”</p><p>你可以这样说：“告诉我关于你们公司的三件事，我来猜猜这是什么公司，”或者“你在喝什么？等等，让我猜猜”。</p><p>4. <span word="Try">Try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="better">better</span></p><p>4.尽量让他们高兴</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>: “<span word="On">On</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="scale">scale</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ten">ten</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="day">day</span>?” <span word="Anyone">Anyone</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="number">number</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ten">ten</span>. <span word="After">After</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="respond">respond</span>, <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="this">this</span>: “<span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="seven">seven</span>?” <span word="You">You</span>’<span word="d">d</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="surprised">surprised</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="gesture">gesture</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>.</p>
页:
[1]