研究发现 很多人是怕对方痛苦才不敢分手
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="surprising">surprising</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="leaving">leaving</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="harm">harm</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>.</p><p>一项令人惊讶的新研究发现，如果一个人认为分手会伤害自己的伴侣，那么他很可能会继续维持这段感情。</p><p><span word="Previous">Previous</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="staying">staying</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="options">options</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="invested">invested</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="money">money</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="break">break</span> <span word="up">up</span>.</p><p>之前的研究发现，情侣们会因为缺乏更好的约会对象，或者他们觉得自己已经在对方身上投入了太多的时间和金钱，从而舍不得分手，最终保持恋爱关系。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="Samantha">Samantha</span> <span word="Joel">Joel</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span> <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Utah">Utah</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="study">study</span>, <span word="told">told</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Post">Post</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="research">research</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="selfless">selfless</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span>.</p><p>但这项研究的作者、犹他大学的心理学教授萨曼莎·乔尔向《华盛顿邮报》透露，根据她的研究，大多数人保持恋爱关系是出于无私的原因。</p><p>"<span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="weren">weren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="committed">committed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="personally">personally</span> <span word="unsatisfied">unsatisfied</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="Generally">Generally</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="want">want</span>."</p><p>“这是真的，即使人们并没有真的努力在维持这段感情，或者他们个人对这段关系不太满意。一般来说，我们不想伤害我们的伴侣，并且总是关心他们最想要的是什么。”</p>
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