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<p>1.<span word="Disarm">Disarm</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="vulnerability">vulnerability</span></p><p>1.示弱让他们放松警惕</p><p><span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="quickest">quickest</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="vulnerable">vulnerable</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="On">On</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="flight">flight</span>? <span word="Tell">Tell</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="seatmate">seatmate</span>, “<span word="Flying">Flying</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="nervous">nervous</span>.”</p><p>有时让别人舒服的最快方法就是示弱。坐飞机时可以告诉同座的乘客“坐飞机我有点紧张。”</p><p>2. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="brutally">brutally</span> <span word="honest">honest</span></p><p>2.敢说真话</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="waste">waste</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="time">time</span>.</p><p>我发现诚实最好，因为不浪费任何人的时间。</p><p>3. <span word="Tell">Tell</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="celebrity">celebrity</span> <span word="doppelganger">doppelganger</span></p><p>3.说别人长得像名人</p><p>“<span word="Did">Did</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="Sophia">Sophia</span> <span word="Vergara">Vergara</span>? ” <span word="This">This</span> <span word="approach">approach</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="effective">effective</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="receiving">receiving</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="thank">thank</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>“有人跟你说过你长得像<span word="Sophia">Sophia</span> <span word="Vergara">Vergara</span>吗？”这个说法总是很有效，对方还会说谢谢。</p><p>4. ‘<span word="Cheers">Cheers</span>’ <span word="them">them</span></p><p>4.跟他们干杯</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bar">bar</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="excuse">excuse</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>, <span word="just">just</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="glass">glass</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="say">say</span> “<span word="cheers">cheers</span>!”<span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="effective">effective</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="threatening">threatening</span>.</p><p>如果你在酒吧想找理由跟别人搭讪，就走过去举起杯说“干杯！”，这招很有效，因为没有威胁性。</p><p>5. <span word="Size">Size</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="up">up</span></p><p>5.让他们帮你量尺寸</p><p><span word="People">People</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="useful">useful</span>. <span word="For">For</span> <span word="instance">instance</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="shopping">shopping</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fit">fit</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="buying">buying</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="size">size</span>.</p>
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